I been with this girl for 51/2 years and we are not legally married but in Canada its a common law relationship its treated almost the same. I bought the wedding ring and was gonna tie the not, I bought our house and start our family, then I got my diagnosis of RRMS and I am scared.
She wants a daughter and be a stay at home mom, I cannot work right now like I used to and being the strong, male provider is definitely in jeopardy.
I'm sure she is questioning a lot but she has been supportive in and outside the hospital as best she can among her high pressure teacher job I don't know where she stands which makes me uneasy. whenever I wanna talk about it she deflects it and blames my previous relationship mistakes (lies/trust) for her uncertainty not my MS, I apologized asked for forgiveness and I love her so much. I feel she looking for a way out maybe I dunno.
I am newly diagnosed and soon to enter treatment, but I have all sorts of racing thoughts like:
-Can I get back work in a different role? estimator or office work?
-Can I ever drive? I just was driving a few days ago
-Can start a family still? what kinda father will i Be?
-Will my girlfriend leave me?
I don't know what to do? and I am scared. My life was going good before now its all up in the air.
Anyone have a story to share any advice? cause I feel really down and in fear of how my life will be.
best to all.
She wants a daughter and be a stay at home mom, I cannot work right now like I used to and being the strong, male provider is definitely in jeopardy.
I'm sure she is questioning a lot but she has been supportive in and outside the hospital as best she can among her high pressure teacher job I don't know where she stands which makes me uneasy. whenever I wanna talk about it she deflects it and blames my previous relationship mistakes (lies/trust) for her uncertainty not my MS, I apologized asked for forgiveness and I love her so much. I feel she looking for a way out maybe I dunno.
I am newly diagnosed and soon to enter treatment, but I have all sorts of racing thoughts like:
-Can I get back work in a different role? estimator or office work?
-Can I ever drive? I just was driving a few days ago
-Can start a family still? what kinda father will i Be?
-Will my girlfriend leave me?
I don't know what to do? and I am scared. My life was going good before now its all up in the air.
Anyone have a story to share any advice? cause I feel really down and in fear of how my life will be.
best to all.
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