Originally posted by Daisycat
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If you are unable to currently move beyond these choices, try some stress management techniques. Choose multiple ideas, not only one. Consider therapy. Many of us have been discouraged too and we benefited from reaching out to someone who could help.
You are making a choice. You've wasted a year. Only you can decide how much more time you choose to waste.
I lost 3 jobs in six years, because of health. I grieved each loss, but chose not to wallow and get stuck there. I went out and got another job. When that was no longer possible, I grieved some more, applied for ssdi and found new interests and activities to occupy my time.
You are diagnosed more than 15 years later than I was. You have more options and there are more frequent hopeful outcomes now.
That, no matter what you believe, is a blessing. Thank the universe for it and reach out for help so you can move on.
We're not better or stronger. We just made a different choice than you did.
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