I used to do so much stuff with my kids go to the park, go to the mall go window shopping etc. Its seems to me now that I cant do those things with my kids they have lost all respect for me.
I have had Ms for 6yrs and 3 of those yrs I have had major issue to deal with my oldest, which was stress after stress.
Then me breaking my ankle needing surgrey to have screws put in to not being able to move because of a pressure blister on my heel to me getting a parasite in my blood.
I really miss just getting up grabbing my walker and the kids and going. Now I cannot. I think they have stopped listening to me because we cant do the things we used to do. My son says just lift you legs or just move your legs you know you can and that is when I yell.
My youngest also is falling suit, she thinks if they do it I can too. My husband says be the parent act like the parent your an adult act like it . I think I have but they do not take me seriously anymore because I am in a wheelchair. They know I cant punish them like taking them by their arm and sending them to their room because I am in a wheelchair .
I just do not know anymore, I feel like my husband isnt even welling to understand all he hears is when I start yelling not the stuff before. I love my family a whole lot but it hurts to know they just dont listen thinking its me causing the chaos really what happened to its the whole unit that has the problem now its time to fix it. I just do not get it.
Has any of you gone through this or is going through this?
kari
I have had Ms for 6yrs and 3 of those yrs I have had major issue to deal with my oldest, which was stress after stress.
Then me breaking my ankle needing surgrey to have screws put in to not being able to move because of a pressure blister on my heel to me getting a parasite in my blood.
I really miss just getting up grabbing my walker and the kids and going. Now I cannot. I think they have stopped listening to me because we cant do the things we used to do. My son says just lift you legs or just move your legs you know you can and that is when I yell.
My youngest also is falling suit, she thinks if they do it I can too. My husband says be the parent act like the parent your an adult act like it . I think I have but they do not take me seriously anymore because I am in a wheelchair. They know I cant punish them like taking them by their arm and sending them to their room because I am in a wheelchair .
I just do not know anymore, I feel like my husband isnt even welling to understand all he hears is when I start yelling not the stuff before. I love my family a whole lot but it hurts to know they just dont listen thinking its me causing the chaos really what happened to its the whole unit that has the problem now its time to fix it. I just do not get it.
Has any of you gone through this or is going through this?
kari
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