Well, I knew this was coming. He had an affair, moved her within 3 miles of my home and then got caught. We have been in counseling. He finds himself overwhelmed by the future with a cripple. I am still ambulatory but have the dreaded MS fatigue, heat intolerance and screwed up sex drive.
So everyone is advising me to get a generous settlement, but in CA its a community property state not sure how well I can do. But it really sucks to have him finally admit 'this is a problem'.
I got diagnosed 5 years ago and have been trying to get him to 'deal' with it, look at coping mechanisms etc. He can't see a future with me.
So it is over. Sorry to whine, about something I already knew, but seems like alot of us get the boot for something we had no control over. People just don't really believe the 'in sickness and in health' part.
Gripes me I will lose my home that my kids grew up in.
Any and all advice is welcome.
So everyone is advising me to get a generous settlement, but in CA its a community property state not sure how well I can do. But it really sucks to have him finally admit 'this is a problem'.
I got diagnosed 5 years ago and have been trying to get him to 'deal' with it, look at coping mechanisms etc. He can't see a future with me.
So it is over. Sorry to whine, about something I already knew, but seems like alot of us get the boot for something we had no control over. People just don't really believe the 'in sickness and in health' part.
Gripes me I will lose my home that my kids grew up in.
Any and all advice is welcome.
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