I’ve heard all the lectures about how I must let go of my resentment bla bla bla. I’ve let go of my resentment and forgiven but she keeps doing more. She is now 91 with no end in sight. When it came time to draft my grandmothers will, she gave herself a very generous serving of the trust that my grandmother intended to be for her grand daughters.
My grandmother dies and mother goes on a 5 year spending spree.
I can’t go into too much detail or my rage will become unbearable. But now that I have MS and am living on SSDI, it’s crunch time. She would be devastated if I died but not badly enough to let go of the reins financially. This year, for the first time, I asked her for help. She got on Amazon and sent me a large box of toilet paper.
Now my washing machine has broken and cannot be repaired. I asked he if she would write a check from the trust as an emergency need for a disabled child. She said ok. But then went on Amazon and saw how much they cost. She said, “we can’t afford that” squawk!! I said don’t look at Amazon. So she spends the day running around town trying to find the best deal on a washer. HomeDepot, Lowes, Sears...
I live 1000 miles away (on purpose), the portion of the trust set aside for me is worthabout$100,000. And she can’t write a check for $500?
My grandmother dies and mother goes on a 5 year spending spree.
I can’t go into too much detail or my rage will become unbearable. But now that I have MS and am living on SSDI, it’s crunch time. She would be devastated if I died but not badly enough to let go of the reins financially. This year, for the first time, I asked her for help. She got on Amazon and sent me a large box of toilet paper.
Now my washing machine has broken and cannot be repaired. I asked he if she would write a check from the trust as an emergency need for a disabled child. She said ok. But then went on Amazon and saw how much they cost. She said, “we can’t afford that” squawk!! I said don’t look at Amazon. So she spends the day running around town trying to find the best deal on a washer. HomeDepot, Lowes, Sears...
I live 1000 miles away (on purpose), the portion of the trust set aside for me is worthabout$100,000. And she can’t write a check for $500?
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