about a week and a half ago when i was driving home, i rapidly developed a sore throat and headache. by the time i got home an hour later, i felt terrible. i have been sick with my first cold in over 10 years since then. last night, my partner began developing the same symptoms i have had and today has been largely sleeping, sniffling, and feeling badly. for whatever reason, i found myself so jealous and full of resentment watching her sleep on the couch this afternoon.
i don't understand what i was so angry about. i think part of it is that my schedule is so insane that i haven't had *time* to be sick, so i have just powered through it and have consequently felt as though a truck ran me over for the last week and a half. maybe part of it too is that her expectations of me whether i am sick or well appear to be the same. watching her sleep, all i could think about was that it was unfair that i wasn't able to nap on the couch all day too when i don't feel well. and it was unfair that i feel tired like i'm sick every day from MS, yet i am expected to still function as if i don't feel that way.
i was shocked at my reaction and had to put my feelings in check. i still don't fully understand what made me so upset. on one hand, the last thing i want is someone to expect less of me because i am chronically ill, but that means in order to keep up i have to work harder and i have to power through more. sometimes i think i resent that. i don't know. i wish i could just go back to last summer before i got diagnosed and "be healthy" again.
i don't understand what i was so angry about. i think part of it is that my schedule is so insane that i haven't had *time* to be sick, so i have just powered through it and have consequently felt as though a truck ran me over for the last week and a half. maybe part of it too is that her expectations of me whether i am sick or well appear to be the same. watching her sleep, all i could think about was that it was unfair that i wasn't able to nap on the couch all day too when i don't feel well. and it was unfair that i feel tired like i'm sick every day from MS, yet i am expected to still function as if i don't feel that way.
i was shocked at my reaction and had to put my feelings in check. i still don't fully understand what made me so upset. on one hand, the last thing i want is someone to expect less of me because i am chronically ill, but that means in order to keep up i have to work harder and i have to power through more. sometimes i think i resent that. i don't know. i wish i could just go back to last summer before i got diagnosed and "be healthy" again.
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