I'm new to all of this and I've only been diagnosed since October, but I have been struggling with the illness for over the last year. My life has basically been turned upside down physically, emotionally and financially.
My mom has really been the only person I can depend on (not married), but I think she is having a hard time dealing with my diagnosis. My mom is my best friend and before I got sick we did everything together and had a great relationship. Since I have been sick though she treats me differently always wanting to do everything for me. She freaks out if I stumble or lose my balance. I tell her that I can do things myself and if I need her help I will ask but I am not sure she believes me. I tell her that I appreciate her help but I need to keep doing things myself and she needs to try and relax. Even when she calls me in the morning her first words to me are "should I come down to do everything or how are you feeling, do you feel ok?" She says she can not stop worrying about the MS and me...what can I do in this situation?
I need her to treat me like she use to and stop treating me like I am sick. Is that even possible?
My mom has really been the only person I can depend on (not married), but I think she is having a hard time dealing with my diagnosis. My mom is my best friend and before I got sick we did everything together and had a great relationship. Since I have been sick though she treats me differently always wanting to do everything for me. She freaks out if I stumble or lose my balance. I tell her that I can do things myself and if I need her help I will ask but I am not sure she believes me. I tell her that I appreciate her help but I need to keep doing things myself and she needs to try and relax. Even when she calls me in the morning her first words to me are "should I come down to do everything or how are you feeling, do you feel ok?" She says she can not stop worrying about the MS and me...what can I do in this situation?
I need her to treat me like she use to and stop treating me like I am sick. Is that even possible?
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