Hey Everyone!
So, hereŽs my story:
Im currently dating a guy who has MS. We have been together for 6 months now, and his health, Thank God, has been great; he only has problems with his balance now and then, he trips easily and sometimes goes sideways. Im 19, and hes 20 years old.
He has told me about his MS, that when he was diagnosed he needed help with walking and bathing. He used a walking cane, and for sometime he used a wheelchair. I didnt meet him when he was like this, I met him around 8 months ago, when he was in great health, and it hasnt changed.
I have enjoyed the relationship so much, heŽs a great guy, and we have so much in common. I dont have any plans of ending the relationship, but sometimes I worry a lot about the future. I worry if heŽll get sick again (hes has RRMS), and how will I handle the situation. I worry about what my parents will say, because they are already in denial of my relationship, and they are not OK with it. They think Ill fall in love, and they worry about their only daughter marrying someone who has a disease.
Please, Im asking for some realistic advice, Im not looking for a pat in the back, I have received some of those hehe...
Just, I dont know, anyone out there who might have some tips on how to stop stressing and enjoy the present? And also, if he had a relapse, how should I manage it? Do you guys think Im over reacting, and when the moment comes, its actually not so bad??
I also would appreciate any one out there who is as young as me, and would like to share their story
Ari
So, hereŽs my story:
Im currently dating a guy who has MS. We have been together for 6 months now, and his health, Thank God, has been great; he only has problems with his balance now and then, he trips easily and sometimes goes sideways. Im 19, and hes 20 years old.
He has told me about his MS, that when he was diagnosed he needed help with walking and bathing. He used a walking cane, and for sometime he used a wheelchair. I didnt meet him when he was like this, I met him around 8 months ago, when he was in great health, and it hasnt changed.
I have enjoyed the relationship so much, heŽs a great guy, and we have so much in common. I dont have any plans of ending the relationship, but sometimes I worry a lot about the future. I worry if heŽll get sick again (hes has RRMS), and how will I handle the situation. I worry about what my parents will say, because they are already in denial of my relationship, and they are not OK with it. They think Ill fall in love, and they worry about their only daughter marrying someone who has a disease.
Please, Im asking for some realistic advice, Im not looking for a pat in the back, I have received some of those hehe...
Just, I dont know, anyone out there who might have some tips on how to stop stressing and enjoy the present? And also, if he had a relapse, how should I manage it? Do you guys think Im over reacting, and when the moment comes, its actually not so bad??
I also would appreciate any one out there who is as young as me, and would like to share their story
Ari
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