How do you deal with jealousy? Ok, let me clarify. My husband is also disabled, but I'm the one with the MS. I don't have many friends up here and I really shouldnt' be driving with all my symptoms, so it seems the only times I get out of the house are for doctors apts. He goes out a few times a month and meets with his veteran friends. I am starting to really hate him going out and really treating him badly when he does. I think most of that stems around the fact that he is refusing to help me around the house. I have to practically chain him to the kitchen counter to get him to do the dishes and he never finishes the job, he'll load the dish washer and not run it, and leave it half full and half the dishes still in the sink. He doesn't vacume or pickup or clean. I mean I KNOW he has problems too, but when is enough enough!
Any recomendations for how to deal with the situation? I don't want to leave him, but I'm so tired of being in a bad mood all the time because it feels like it is me and our 3 kids (5, 4, and 2) trying to do everything and he is just acting like a big teenager doing whatever he wants and damn the conciquences.
Any recomendations for how to deal with the situation? I don't want to leave him, but I'm so tired of being in a bad mood all the time because it feels like it is me and our 3 kids (5, 4, and 2) trying to do everything and he is just acting like a big teenager doing whatever he wants and damn the conciquences.
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