So people will say "Oh, he acted wrongly due to his bipolar condition". Or someone w/ cancer goes through chemo behaving oddly "it's understandably as they have cancer". No one realizes what MS does to folks. They just look at the person and say "they look fine so that means they must be OK" so there is no logic to their behavior and they just must be out of luck. So there are poor assumptions made to MS folks around the globe.
Another example: People with Alcohol problems. They can do and say things they don't mean but people know it's because of the drinking. All of this does NOT make any bad action excusable, but there is a reason for the actions. When the brain is impacted, people change and can act / behave differently. My friend Joe was in a car accident. He had brain damage/lesions. He is OK but gets into fits of anger at times because of the damage. At times, there is no difference between his damage/lesions and the damage that happens to MS'ers brain. People who go through strokes typically have brain damage which will affect them mentally and physically. They can act out at times but folks understand it's because of the stroke. Well when I had my first brain MRI, the radiologist reported" "This patient appears to have had a series of strokes due to the lesions/damage found on his brain". OK, what is the difference between how a stroke victim acts as opposed to a person w/ MS? The MAJORITY of the public does NOT get it.
In summary, people with MS have obvious mental & physical issues but no one ever says, “That must have happened because of the disease". I hear this all of the time with MS folks at my meetings as the majority of the people are clueless in regards to MS and its effects. And with a reason, there is normally some ability to understand... Still, it doesn't make a bad action right of course. That's key. Sadly, I guess when we reach ambulatory care and with complete memory damage, then folks will actually get it...
** Moderator's note - Post broken into paragraphs for easier reading. Many people with MS have visual difficulties that prevent them from reading large blocks of print. **
Another example: People with Alcohol problems. They can do and say things they don't mean but people know it's because of the drinking. All of this does NOT make any bad action excusable, but there is a reason for the actions. When the brain is impacted, people change and can act / behave differently. My friend Joe was in a car accident. He had brain damage/lesions. He is OK but gets into fits of anger at times because of the damage. At times, there is no difference between his damage/lesions and the damage that happens to MS'ers brain. People who go through strokes typically have brain damage which will affect them mentally and physically. They can act out at times but folks understand it's because of the stroke. Well when I had my first brain MRI, the radiologist reported" "This patient appears to have had a series of strokes due to the lesions/damage found on his brain". OK, what is the difference between how a stroke victim acts as opposed to a person w/ MS? The MAJORITY of the public does NOT get it.
In summary, people with MS have obvious mental & physical issues but no one ever says, “That must have happened because of the disease". I hear this all of the time with MS folks at my meetings as the majority of the people are clueless in regards to MS and its effects. And with a reason, there is normally some ability to understand... Still, it doesn't make a bad action right of course. That's key. Sadly, I guess when we reach ambulatory care and with complete memory damage, then folks will actually get it...
** Moderator's note - Post broken into paragraphs for easier reading. Many people with MS have visual difficulties that prevent them from reading large blocks of print. **
Comment