Completely frustrated by family members who found a newspaper article about psychogenic illness.
MIL sent link to it to me and my husband.
SIL sent link about it to my husband as well referencing her mom and her thoughts on my possibility of seeing the doctor who knows all about psychogenic illness.
Not only do I have to fight the medical community. In my case the neuros and the psychs are at odds with this diagnosis - the psychs say it is physical!
I get mad, sad, cry, talk about my feelings on all kinds of topics and have had talk therapy. I have no problems expressing my emotions.
I even got mad and said “Hey I’m mad that your mom sent me that.” But once I expressed myself I felt better and I could frankly give a you know what she thinks as I have had no support from family members.
Now my SIL who has had a problem with me which is actually really all about her is now all of a sudden interested in my health after I don’t know how many years.
They must be gossiping and loving every minute of it because that is what they do and they do it well.
Now I believe that it is none of my business what they think of me. But at first I need to get mad about it and today here is where I need to get it off my chest.
It is dangerous to diagnose someone with a psychogenic illness without looking at many other mimics of MS and without having even current spinal MRIs.
I have other mental health diagnoses and have no problem with a diagnosis of psychogenic illness if that was what it was thought to be by my psych team however it is not, so I’m investigating all other possibilities.
Did you know that the DSMV will diagnose anyone with a physical illness with no diagnosis with a mental illness after 6 months? BUT it only gets better! If you have a heart attack, or surgery and you show any levels of anxiety you too can be labelled with a mental health diagnosis. Now that is unbelievable.
So my MIL who is very unfortunately at home with a spine fusion operation gone wrong may have to have additional surgery and now has more pain than before her operation. If she shows any signs of sadness, anger, depression, anxiety etc. she will in addition to having a diagnosis for her very real physical back problems may also have a mental health diagnosis.
My husband wanted to tell her that and I said NO, that’s mean.
I am expressing my emotions here because I am just at a loss as to why they think that this is helpful by email?
These family members are not easy to talk to and enjoy gossip - something that I dislike engaging in as it’s usually not meant to discuss friendly topics.
MIL sent link to it to me and my husband.
SIL sent link about it to my husband as well referencing her mom and her thoughts on my possibility of seeing the doctor who knows all about psychogenic illness.
Not only do I have to fight the medical community. In my case the neuros and the psychs are at odds with this diagnosis - the psychs say it is physical!
I get mad, sad, cry, talk about my feelings on all kinds of topics and have had talk therapy. I have no problems expressing my emotions.
I even got mad and said “Hey I’m mad that your mom sent me that.” But once I expressed myself I felt better and I could frankly give a you know what she thinks as I have had no support from family members.
Now my SIL who has had a problem with me which is actually really all about her is now all of a sudden interested in my health after I don’t know how many years.
They must be gossiping and loving every minute of it because that is what they do and they do it well.
Now I believe that it is none of my business what they think of me. But at first I need to get mad about it and today here is where I need to get it off my chest.
It is dangerous to diagnose someone with a psychogenic illness without looking at many other mimics of MS and without having even current spinal MRIs.
I have other mental health diagnoses and have no problem with a diagnosis of psychogenic illness if that was what it was thought to be by my psych team however it is not, so I’m investigating all other possibilities.
Did you know that the DSMV will diagnose anyone with a physical illness with no diagnosis with a mental illness after 6 months? BUT it only gets better! If you have a heart attack, or surgery and you show any levels of anxiety you too can be labelled with a mental health diagnosis. Now that is unbelievable.
So my MIL who is very unfortunately at home with a spine fusion operation gone wrong may have to have additional surgery and now has more pain than before her operation. If she shows any signs of sadness, anger, depression, anxiety etc. she will in addition to having a diagnosis for her very real physical back problems may also have a mental health diagnosis.
My husband wanted to tell her that and I said NO, that’s mean.
I am expressing my emotions here because I am just at a loss as to why they think that this is helpful by email?
These family members are not easy to talk to and enjoy gossip - something that I dislike engaging in as it’s usually not meant to discuss friendly topics.
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