Hi! I'm Amanda I'm new here. I'm 24 snd have a son named
nation who is almost 2. I was diagnosed with MS on Thursday. After I just helped my Girlfriend move from Houston to Indiana. My gf and I have been friends for about 6 years and have dated briefly in the past. Se messed with my head even quite a few times. But I loved her for so long and she's loved me now for the last 2 years. I tried to make it work with my sons father (which was just a sexual relationship for me) I never seemed to develop any romantic/ emotional connections to him.
After not
Talking for almost a year and a half my gf Vicci and I started speaking again on Facebook she had a gf a 2 bedroom apartment in a wonderful area 2 cats and her dog. Finally around Christmas time last year we decided even though at this point it was all long distance, I was in Indianapolis she is in Houston that we wanted to be together. We decided to wait until after the holidays to break the news. She moved out after informing her gf. I came to visit her. She basically went broke for me (she only receives disability income ecause she was in a horrible car accident and her throat was crushed set now wears a trach and cannot speak above a whisper) finally after 3 months apart I went up ther June 15th an spent a week there with her and we moved her here to Indiana with me. Big step for her. We've talked about having kids getting married. This woman is my SOUL MATE. I love her so incredibly much.
Now I've always been a very emotional person. Very sensitive easily hurt, easily cry, that type of stuff. She knows this as we've been beat friends for yeas. But lately I have awful mood swings that upset her. I get mad easily, or I feel like she doesn't want me (which I'm sure is all on my head because I've always been that way) or anything can set me off and make me upset. She blames
My ms for most of it and so do I. Right now she is being super supportive and loving ad helpful but I feel she will spoon tire of dealing with the hardships of this disease. I can't imagine my life without her. We made a future before the disease became an issue and before my dx. My sons dad is also causing issues by withholding my son but that's another story for another day.
How do you all deal with hardships in your relationships related to MS? I also feel like a majority of the time she thinks I'm beig "lazy" she doesn't exactly SAY it but jokes about it and I barely helped at all during the move as I was developing new symptoms at tr time. I'm not LAZY as you all know I'm exhausted no matter how much I sleep. And standing sometimes I get dizzy have vision issues bad headaches you name it. I'm laying down at aT LEAST once a day.
I'm scared ms is going to ruin the best thing besides my son to ever happen to me
nation who is almost 2. I was diagnosed with MS on Thursday. After I just helped my Girlfriend move from Houston to Indiana. My gf and I have been friends for about 6 years and have dated briefly in the past. Se messed with my head even quite a few times. But I loved her for so long and she's loved me now for the last 2 years. I tried to make it work with my sons father (which was just a sexual relationship for me) I never seemed to develop any romantic/ emotional connections to him.
After not
Talking for almost a year and a half my gf Vicci and I started speaking again on Facebook she had a gf a 2 bedroom apartment in a wonderful area 2 cats and her dog. Finally around Christmas time last year we decided even though at this point it was all long distance, I was in Indianapolis she is in Houston that we wanted to be together. We decided to wait until after the holidays to break the news. She moved out after informing her gf. I came to visit her. She basically went broke for me (she only receives disability income ecause she was in a horrible car accident and her throat was crushed set now wears a trach and cannot speak above a whisper) finally after 3 months apart I went up ther June 15th an spent a week there with her and we moved her here to Indiana with me. Big step for her. We've talked about having kids getting married. This woman is my SOUL MATE. I love her so incredibly much.
Now I've always been a very emotional person. Very sensitive easily hurt, easily cry, that type of stuff. She knows this as we've been beat friends for yeas. But lately I have awful mood swings that upset her. I get mad easily, or I feel like she doesn't want me (which I'm sure is all on my head because I've always been that way) or anything can set me off and make me upset. She blames
My ms for most of it and so do I. Right now she is being super supportive and loving ad helpful but I feel she will spoon tire of dealing with the hardships of this disease. I can't imagine my life without her. We made a future before the disease became an issue and before my dx. My sons dad is also causing issues by withholding my son but that's another story for another day.
How do you all deal with hardships in your relationships related to MS? I also feel like a majority of the time she thinks I'm beig "lazy" she doesn't exactly SAY it but jokes about it and I barely helped at all during the move as I was developing new symptoms at tr time. I'm not LAZY as you all know I'm exhausted no matter how much I sleep. And standing sometimes I get dizzy have vision issues bad headaches you name it. I'm laying down at aT LEAST once a day.
I'm scared ms is going to ruin the best thing besides my son to ever happen to me
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