numb and no desire...anyone know of a solution? Medicine maybe?

[yelishia]

Until I read some threads I had no idea what I am going through is not unusual. I started going numb down there about a year ago. Now I have absolutely no drive to make love with my hubby and I feel so awful about it. Like there must be something "wrong" with me, if you know what I mean. I feel like I am cheating him out of a normal sex life. I don't know what body mapping is, anyone tell me please? Any other solutions? I am going to ask my Dr to check my testosterone levels next week. I thought it was only me until today. I am sorry it's shared by others but so relieved to no longer be alone in it. Thanks to anyone who replies.

[maitrimama]

Yelishia - I assure you you are not alone with this matter. I know that I am often confused but that I am not the only one. You didn't mention if you were on any meds but many anti-depressants can reek havoc on you our sex drives. I was on Zoloft a while back and I loved it until they got me to the right therapeutic dose and it was like a light was switched, all of a sudden I was dead as a doornail, that was very difficult for us because sex/our bed was always a safe haven. The important thing is to talk about it. I was lucky, I switched meds and things got better.

[yelishia]

As a matter of fact I am on an anti-deppresant, Luvox. I went on it after I had lost all interest in all the things I loved to do and was always so sad and exhausted. Since being on it I am so much better so I'd hate to lose what I've gained. I thought these drugs were supposed to help this area of things too but now I will ask my Dr next week about it and also to check my hormone levels. I also want to find out about Viagra for women if there truly is one. Thanks for anwering