I know a lot of people here have different approaches to diets and what they eat and do not eat. I am not wanting to start a debate on what someone should eat or should not eat...
I do have a few questions though...
1. What do I do about holiday meals? Last year I was eating "better" , but the only thing I cared about last year was low sodium. This year my list of requirements for what I eat is so long it gives me a headache some days. I don't want to "take a day off" because I would probably feel horrible from eating so much bad food. My dad has already said he is fine with us not having a meal as long as he gets to see me. The problem is my boyfriend's family.
How do I deal with explaining why I am only eating a small amount or avoiding certain things that I used to love?
2. I am going against my anti social nature and going to the work Christmas party. I might end up regretting it.... BUT the old DR that I used to work with is going to be there. He was very helpful with helping me deal with this when I was first diagnosed so it would be nice to at least catch up.
BUT my problem is how can I make a nice "exit" when I have reached my limit of being around people (because some days that is only 5 minutes) and how do I explain why I am not eating.
Being around people can get really depressing for me some days, and I don't want to end up further down my dark hole than I already am. Although since I will probably be the only sober one there it will be nice to have funny stories about everyone I guess.
Thankfully everyone at work already thinks I never eat... but I tell them I eat one meal a day. (Dinner) So this is going to be at night so I am thinking maybe just tell them I went to dinner with a friend already? Technically I am going to dinner with a friend before the party... I am not going to be eating , but she needs someone to go and help save her from her ex husband's family.
I do have a few questions though...
1. What do I do about holiday meals? Last year I was eating "better" , but the only thing I cared about last year was low sodium. This year my list of requirements for what I eat is so long it gives me a headache some days. I don't want to "take a day off" because I would probably feel horrible from eating so much bad food. My dad has already said he is fine with us not having a meal as long as he gets to see me. The problem is my boyfriend's family.
How do I deal with explaining why I am only eating a small amount or avoiding certain things that I used to love?
2. I am going against my anti social nature and going to the work Christmas party. I might end up regretting it.... BUT the old DR that I used to work with is going to be there. He was very helpful with helping me deal with this when I was first diagnosed so it would be nice to at least catch up.
BUT my problem is how can I make a nice "exit" when I have reached my limit of being around people (because some days that is only 5 minutes) and how do I explain why I am not eating.
Being around people can get really depressing for me some days, and I don't want to end up further down my dark hole than I already am. Although since I will probably be the only sober one there it will be nice to have funny stories about everyone I guess.
Thankfully everyone at work already thinks I never eat... but I tell them I eat one meal a day. (Dinner) So this is going to be at night so I am thinking maybe just tell them I went to dinner with a friend already? Technically I am going to dinner with a friend before the party... I am not going to be eating , but she needs someone to go and help save her from her ex husband's family.
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