Pennstater -
I am not trying to frustrate anyone by my posts. I am just being honest with how I feel. My only hang up with therapy is I don’t see how I can ever be happy again knowing everything I have lost. It still breaks my heart knowing what will never be.
I do plan to tell my new neurologist all of this stuff. I really hope he is a decent one. I understand your suggestion to go to a support group but I cannot go in public and admit to having this curse. I have a hard time saying the words to people who know I have this. Going into a room with a bunch of strangers would be horrible. I mean what if someone who knows me from work (a client) is there. I would be terrified of them saying something. I am having a hard enough time thinking about going to a therapist so I think being in a room full of people would be way too much for me.
I can’t risk this getting out into being public knowledge. I also do not think they would take kindly to my view on a life with this. I could be wrong but I feel they would get offended by some of my views on this. I really wish I could just have a do over and start fresh… new life new everything.
Jules –
I agree with what you said 100%. No one really knows what someone else is going through and being told my symptom “isn’t that big of deal” is frustrating. I get it that some people have it worse, but that doesn’t make this any easier. Every day is harder for me than the one before. I honestly can’t imagine the pain I will be in 5 years down the road.
I am not trying to frustrate anyone by my posts. I am just being honest with how I feel. My only hang up with therapy is I don’t see how I can ever be happy again knowing everything I have lost. It still breaks my heart knowing what will never be.
I do plan to tell my new neurologist all of this stuff. I really hope he is a decent one. I understand your suggestion to go to a support group but I cannot go in public and admit to having this curse. I have a hard time saying the words to people who know I have this. Going into a room with a bunch of strangers would be horrible. I mean what if someone who knows me from work (a client) is there. I would be terrified of them saying something. I am having a hard enough time thinking about going to a therapist so I think being in a room full of people would be way too much for me.
I can’t risk this getting out into being public knowledge. I also do not think they would take kindly to my view on a life with this. I could be wrong but I feel they would get offended by some of my views on this. I really wish I could just have a do over and start fresh… new life new everything.
Jules –
I agree with what you said 100%. No one really knows what someone else is going through and being told my symptom “isn’t that big of deal” is frustrating. I get it that some people have it worse, but that doesn’t make this any easier. Every day is harder for me than the one before. I honestly can’t imagine the pain I will be in 5 years down the road.
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