Although I have been reading posts for a few months now I only began replying to the odd thread recently and decided to finally ask a ? of my own. I have had RRMS for almost 30 years and- if there is such a thing- am probably 'A typical' with most things from onset to my treatments and relapses.
But although since I became a member here I have read many posts that I can identify with and have gained comfort, reassurance and info I have a query that I would appreciate some feedback on please that I haven't found previously posted of a similar nature. Also I'll apologise at the outset for my tendency to 'waffle on' a bit- ms or personality- not sure.
For years I wasn't happy with the neurologist I was seeing but unfortunately they are pretty thin on the ground in AUS especially in rural areas. I would travel a minimum of 100m /2hrs (if an apt was available on his next reigonal visit or if I had to see him at his surgery it was a 7-8hr drive or a flight coupled with overnight or longer stay. I did this for ten yrs. I decided to ask to be referred to some one else about 4 yrs ago. Unfortunately it means a 4 hr drive there and then another 4hrs home every time but it was well worth it because i am much happier with his care and attitude.
When I initially consulted this new doc and was running through my history etc with him I mentioned that I had had my first major onset 3 months after having my 1st child. Then he was quite surprised when i told him that i then went on to have in total 5 children in 6yrs. (Not much tv in rural Aus either.) Then he said something that surprised - he said that although it is very comon for women to have onsets/relapses within a few months of having a baby he had read an article that gave statistics that indicated that having more than one or two children often seemed to stabilised ms. I haven't been able to find any clarification of this statement or info on any study to do with this.
There is lots of discussion re hormonal changes and exacerbations and this is similar but I would really like to hear from ladies who may have had a few children to compare notes so to speak or anyone who may have some insight in to the study or info he mentioned.
I had previously had an aunt and an uncle who had severe ms and died in their early 40s.
As you can imagine having that many children in such a short time frame as well as dealing with many other life consequences and ms is a lot of hard work and can be very stressful so I actually received a perverse amount of comfort from thinking my 5 boys had probably save my life.
Ps we didn't plan this . Like ms life also throws the odd curve ball.
Thanks I look forward to some replies.
But although since I became a member here I have read many posts that I can identify with and have gained comfort, reassurance and info I have a query that I would appreciate some feedback on please that I haven't found previously posted of a similar nature. Also I'll apologise at the outset for my tendency to 'waffle on' a bit- ms or personality- not sure.
For years I wasn't happy with the neurologist I was seeing but unfortunately they are pretty thin on the ground in AUS especially in rural areas. I would travel a minimum of 100m /2hrs (if an apt was available on his next reigonal visit or if I had to see him at his surgery it was a 7-8hr drive or a flight coupled with overnight or longer stay. I did this for ten yrs. I decided to ask to be referred to some one else about 4 yrs ago. Unfortunately it means a 4 hr drive there and then another 4hrs home every time but it was well worth it because i am much happier with his care and attitude.
When I initially consulted this new doc and was running through my history etc with him I mentioned that I had had my first major onset 3 months after having my 1st child. Then he was quite surprised when i told him that i then went on to have in total 5 children in 6yrs. (Not much tv in rural Aus either.) Then he said something that surprised - he said that although it is very comon for women to have onsets/relapses within a few months of having a baby he had read an article that gave statistics that indicated that having more than one or two children often seemed to stabilised ms. I haven't been able to find any clarification of this statement or info on any study to do with this.
There is lots of discussion re hormonal changes and exacerbations and this is similar but I would really like to hear from ladies who may have had a few children to compare notes so to speak or anyone who may have some insight in to the study or info he mentioned.
I had previously had an aunt and an uncle who had severe ms and died in their early 40s.
As you can imagine having that many children in such a short time frame as well as dealing with many other life consequences and ms is a lot of hard work and can be very stressful so I actually received a perverse amount of comfort from thinking my 5 boys had probably save my life.
Ps we didn't plan this . Like ms life also throws the odd curve ball.
Thanks I look forward to some replies.
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