Tonight my husband told me he didn't love me anymore. He just felt like a caretaker and he didn't want to take care of patients at work and then come home, cook, clean it up (mind you I just had another surgery or I would be doing these things). I called him selfish and now he won't forgive me, says I am lying. I didn't ask for this disease and don't understand where this is coming from. He says he is just to swamped with work to deal with me.
If it were him, I would take care of him. In fact when he had his parathyroid out I took care of hime for 6 months because his calcium was all over the place, he couldn't remember anything, needed me to do almost everything for him. I just can't get up right now. I have someone to care for me three days per week. So he was supposed to take time off and be with me the other two days, plus the weekends (if he is on call I get someone else to stay with me).
I understand how hard it can be to take care of people at home and at work. I did it several years when one of my grandparents was very sick and died.
I HATE THIS STUPID DISEASE- EVERY LITTLE PART OF IT!!!!!
Thanks for letting me vent.
Lisa
If it were him, I would take care of him. In fact when he had his parathyroid out I took care of hime for 6 months because his calcium was all over the place, he couldn't remember anything, needed me to do almost everything for him. I just can't get up right now. I have someone to care for me three days per week. So he was supposed to take time off and be with me the other two days, plus the weekends (if he is on call I get someone else to stay with me).
I understand how hard it can be to take care of people at home and at work. I did it several years when one of my grandparents was very sick and died.
I HATE THIS STUPID DISEASE- EVERY LITTLE PART OF IT!!!!!
Thanks for letting me vent.
Lisa
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