I grew up military, moving every 2 - 3 years, and in my adult life we've moved several times. Lots of experience and still it is hard.
Five years ago DH & I moved from a large house to a much smaller place. The new, smaller place was in an area where there is a large furniture industry, so we inexpensively furnished the house with "seconds" - presto, no need to move furniture! One of our adult children was living in the old house, so we left most of our non-essential stuff there, and I drove a 14 foot truck, half filled with "important stuff," across country. Since OP's two homes are close together, maybe you could find a buyer who wants to buy your furniture with the house, save moving it.
We've never missed anything that was left in the "big house." It seems we humans tend to accumulate a lot more stuff than we need, then it is hard to clear out. The daughter that lives in the house has our permission to have a big yard sale. Then call 1-800-GOT-JUNK to haul away the rest.
One suggestion: Ask a friend who is an "impartial third party" help you sort through all the stuff, since they may better tell what is really of value to you, and what is junk to throw away or donate to charity or sell at a garage sale.
Then when that friend has to move, you can return the favor. I found sorting "toss" vs "keep" decision-making was much harder than the actual moving. If you've been effective at it, there won't be much left to move!
Five years ago DH & I moved from a large house to a much smaller place. The new, smaller place was in an area where there is a large furniture industry, so we inexpensively furnished the house with "seconds" - presto, no need to move furniture! One of our adult children was living in the old house, so we left most of our non-essential stuff there, and I drove a 14 foot truck, half filled with "important stuff," across country. Since OP's two homes are close together, maybe you could find a buyer who wants to buy your furniture with the house, save moving it.
We've never missed anything that was left in the "big house." It seems we humans tend to accumulate a lot more stuff than we need, then it is hard to clear out. The daughter that lives in the house has our permission to have a big yard sale. Then call 1-800-GOT-JUNK to haul away the rest.
One suggestion: Ask a friend who is an "impartial third party" help you sort through all the stuff, since they may better tell what is really of value to you, and what is junk to throw away or donate to charity or sell at a garage sale.
Then when that friend has to move, you can return the favor. I found sorting "toss" vs "keep" decision-making was much harder than the actual moving. If you've been effective at it, there won't be much left to move!
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