Needy neighbors??
Hello
I have lived in my apt community for many years and have gotten to know a lady across the st casually. I dont see her often just passing in driveway or a rare yard sit down visit.
I helped her w/ her pc once years ago.
She always was nice and I know she does a lot for people.
But she is getting very needy and clingy to anyone around her and I feel bad for her, but I cant deal with it.
She has tons of friends they are there a lot, she is either on the phone or has company all the time.
Retiree late sixties but was a very young sixties lady with two tone funky hair, fancy jewelry, fancy dressy clothes and tattoos (pot leaf). She appears to have it all together. I tell you this about her so you see I never thought she'd be this type. Id think she'd be casual cool.
She freely tells you she was an alcoholic and is now a pill popper and is dependent on it.
She runs after the mail man to talk.
Okay.....she now has zoned in on me telling neighbors I never visit her, Im avoiding her etc..
Ive told her many times of my MS and heat is a killer and I have very little energy, what I have goes to my hubby and my chores.
Its not enough...she is mad at me and nasty that I dont come talk and visit etc...She even got ticked when I told her I couldnt take care of her dog when she was away, that requires many visits back and forth in heat to let it out when I cant know how I will be feeling.
Its weird as heck because I hardly ever visited anyway, nothing has changed for me.
She is stressing me out and lives in my window shot right across the st and sees me every time I go out.
Im at odds how to get around this. I wanted to be kind but its just draining me. I cant even poke my nose outside without running into her.
Ugh. I may have to be rude and tell her I cant handle friendships Im just too exhausted physically, but Ive really told her this in the past.
Anyone else have this issue? She thinks I need more action in life and friends and am depressed. Im not, Im fine just want her out of my hair!!
I have lived in my apt community for many years and have gotten to know a lady across the st casually. I dont see her often just passing in driveway or a rare yard sit down visit.
I helped her w/ her pc once years ago.
She always was nice and I know she does a lot for people.
But she is getting very needy and clingy to anyone around her and I feel bad for her, but I cant deal with it.
She has tons of friends they are there a lot, she is either on the phone or has company all the time.
Retiree late sixties but was a very young sixties lady with two tone funky hair, fancy jewelry, fancy dressy clothes and tattoos (pot leaf). She appears to have it all together. I tell you this about her so you see I never thought she'd be this type. Id think she'd be casual cool.
She freely tells you she was an alcoholic and is now a pill popper and is dependent on it.
She runs after the mail man to talk.
Okay.....she now has zoned in on me telling neighbors I never visit her, Im avoiding her etc..
Ive told her many times of my MS and heat is a killer and I have very little energy, what I have goes to my hubby and my chores.
Its not enough...she is mad at me and nasty that I dont come talk and visit etc...She even got ticked when I told her I couldnt take care of her dog when she was away, that requires many visits back and forth in heat to let it out when I cant know how I will be feeling.
Its weird as heck because I hardly ever visited anyway, nothing has changed for me.
She is stressing me out and lives in my window shot right across the st and sees me every time I go out.
Im at odds how to get around this. I wanted to be kind but its just draining me. I cant even poke my nose outside without running into her.
Ugh. I may have to be rude and tell her I cant handle friendships Im just too exhausted physically, but Ive really told her this in the past.
Anyone else have this issue? She thinks I need more action in life and friends and am depressed. Im not, Im fine just want her out of my hair!!
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