So I'm adopted. I have MS. But back when I was in limbo land and we didn't know what the problem was doctors were wanting a medical history so I scoured the internet and found my birth parents.
I had my adoptive mother contact them to ask for any history of medical problems they might be willing to share. I wasn't trying to intrude on their lives so I made no personal contact.
That was all long time ago, but it turns out I have 3 sisters and a brother and my youngest sister did want to get to know me.
Flash forward and just yesterday we met up on facebook and had a chat. Which was of course a deeply moving experience for me. But the reason why I post this here is that when I asked about her job she said she was currently out on disability leave for lupus.
I was born and given up for adoption and raised in California. Years later a sister was born and raised in Florida. But I grow up and develop MS and she grows up and develops lupus.
It's purely anecdotal evidence of course but I still thought it was interesting that we would have no contact all our lives and be raised on opposite coasts, but both end up developing incurable autoimmune diseases.
I had my adoptive mother contact them to ask for any history of medical problems they might be willing to share. I wasn't trying to intrude on their lives so I made no personal contact.
That was all long time ago, but it turns out I have 3 sisters and a brother and my youngest sister did want to get to know me.
Flash forward and just yesterday we met up on facebook and had a chat. Which was of course a deeply moving experience for me. But the reason why I post this here is that when I asked about her job she said she was currently out on disability leave for lupus.
I was born and given up for adoption and raised in California. Years later a sister was born and raised in Florida. But I grow up and develop MS and she grows up and develops lupus.
It's purely anecdotal evidence of course but I still thought it was interesting that we would have no contact all our lives and be raised on opposite coasts, but both end up developing incurable autoimmune diseases.
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