Does telling others about your MS ever get any easier? I've chosen to be fairly open with the people in my life about my MS. I don't regret it & for the most part, everyone has been wonderful. Even the few who said something stupid had good intentions. But I still find it hard to disclose initially.
I also find it hard to deal with the sympathy. I recently told one of my instructors at school because I had to take an incomplete in her class last term & I needed her help getting back on track with finishing up the course. I figured if she knew my situation, it would make it easier to work something out, so I told her briefly about my diagnosis. She was incredibly kind, understanding & helpful. I couldn't have asked for a better or more supportive reaction.
Yet....Part of me wanted to shrink away from her kindness and the obvious sympathy behind it. Every time I encounter the inevitable sympathy, I feel almost queasy & I can feel the anxiety rising inside me. I don't quite know why.... Maybe it drives home the reality of it all? I know that it is totally me- not them or their reactions- but I don't know what my problem is. Does it ever get any easier to tell people that you have a chronic illness?
I also find it hard to deal with the sympathy. I recently told one of my instructors at school because I had to take an incomplete in her class last term & I needed her help getting back on track with finishing up the course. I figured if she knew my situation, it would make it easier to work something out, so I told her briefly about my diagnosis. She was incredibly kind, understanding & helpful. I couldn't have asked for a better or more supportive reaction.
Yet....Part of me wanted to shrink away from her kindness and the obvious sympathy behind it. Every time I encounter the inevitable sympathy, I feel almost queasy & I can feel the anxiety rising inside me. I don't quite know why.... Maybe it drives home the reality of it all? I know that it is totally me- not them or their reactions- but I don't know what my problem is. Does it ever get any easier to tell people that you have a chronic illness?
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