Never in my wildest dreams when I went to the doctor because of numbness and tingling in my legs and groin would I hear the words.... you have Multiple Sclerosis. Wait... What?? I have what??? it was like an out of body experience.... but I'm only 47 ! This can't be happening. My entire world crumbled in a matter of seconds.
I realized that I have probably had it for years prior to the dx since I have seen such notable changes from 10 years til now but it doesn't change the shock of actually getting the dx and hearing those words out loud for the first time.
I have always tried to maintain the attitude that I have MS but it doesn't have me, but if I am truly being honest with myself, MS does have me............
I used to Taebo 6 days a week for an hour each day( I was even on QVC and met Billy Blanks) now I can hardly walk on a good day and have gained 60 pounds because I can no longer do any kind of exercise............ MS has done that to me.
I used to have a thriving pet sitting business that I LOVED but I can no longer do that because who wants a pet sitter that can't walk their dogs............. MS has done that to me.
Anytime anyone sees me or talks to me on the phone, they always want to know how I am feeling..... they never just ask something not related to MS..... MS has done that to me.
I used to be such an independent person.......now my DH does most things that I cannot do anymore........MS has done that to me.
MS has defined who I am now..... there is not a minute that goes by every single day of every single hour that MS doesn't remind me that it has me. How can I ever forget? Needles every other day, constant pain in my legs, a million pills
I know there are those of you who want to spin it so that we have to make the most of what we have, and please, while I respect your feelings, I don't feel that way -at least not yet.
My therapist says its a grieving thing..... I guess right now I am in the anger stage..... who knows how long it will take me to the acceptance stage...... I hope one day I will be able to scream from the top of the roof.... I HAVE MS BUT IT DOESN'T HAVE ME !
I realized that I have probably had it for years prior to the dx since I have seen such notable changes from 10 years til now but it doesn't change the shock of actually getting the dx and hearing those words out loud for the first time.
I have always tried to maintain the attitude that I have MS but it doesn't have me, but if I am truly being honest with myself, MS does have me............
I used to Taebo 6 days a week for an hour each day( I was even on QVC and met Billy Blanks) now I can hardly walk on a good day and have gained 60 pounds because I can no longer do any kind of exercise............ MS has done that to me.
I used to have a thriving pet sitting business that I LOVED but I can no longer do that because who wants a pet sitter that can't walk their dogs............. MS has done that to me.
Anytime anyone sees me or talks to me on the phone, they always want to know how I am feeling..... they never just ask something not related to MS..... MS has done that to me.
I used to be such an independent person.......now my DH does most things that I cannot do anymore........MS has done that to me.
MS has defined who I am now..... there is not a minute that goes by every single day of every single hour that MS doesn't remind me that it has me. How can I ever forget? Needles every other day, constant pain in my legs, a million pills
I know there are those of you who want to spin it so that we have to make the most of what we have, and please, while I respect your feelings, I don't feel that way -at least not yet.
My therapist says its a grieving thing..... I guess right now I am in the anger stage..... who knows how long it will take me to the acceptance stage...... I hope one day I will be able to scream from the top of the roof.... I HAVE MS BUT IT DOESN'T HAVE ME !
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