Hi all, it's been a while! But as someone else said here somewhere, we are all so busy & tired with teaching that we don't have/take time to hang out here.
I apologize now if this post starts to ramble--I'm so shaken up about this recently, and I don't quite know if I have a 'question' or just need to vent. Anyway, here goes:
I'm TERRIFIED about cognitive problems. Quake in my boots, sob into my pillow TERRIFIED. This is my 16th year teaching, but only my 3rd at my current school. I teach upper level (junior & senior) Spanish classes. This school is a very high-achieving, high-pressure, high-expectation place, and I find myself always drowning here. I don't know if it would have been any different if I'd stayed at my old school or not. I teach 6 classes a day, total of 150 students (which is nothing compared to what some teachers have, I know!) and I can just never keep up. By the time I'm done with my teaching day, I just don't have the mental energy to do anything else. Nothing at all, besides lay on the couch, pet the dog, and watch tv. Which sucks, but I could handle it, if that's all there was to it. But we all know it isn't--hours of planning & preparing, more hours of grading...I just feel like I can NOT do it all!!! We are on 6-week grading periods, and we just ended the 2nd grade period a week and a half ago. My principal came to me to talk about my grades--not the kids' actual final grades, but that parents were contacting him (not me, not my dept chair--straight to the principal! Grrr) with concerns about how few grades I had taken in my classes.
Talk about breaking down! Thank God I have the best husband in the world! He is so supportive and loving. I don't know what I would have done if he hadn't been there to help me cope. Even with his support, though, I had a good 3 days of near-total meltdown. I'm not a good enough teacher for this school, I just can't do it, what's wrong with me (well, other than the obvious...) and on and on.
But what it all boils down to is this: the REASON that I had so few grades in the grading period is the mental fatigue. I take the essays home to grade (because I just have to get OUT of school!) but then I just can't even wrap my head around the idea of even reading them, much less concentrating enough to grade anything. I try to read them, but I just can't focus on it. I know that grading stuff takes a while, but it shouldn't be harder for me to read than it was for the kids to write!
On several occasions I've told my husband that I feel like I can EITHER teach, OR lesson plan, OR grade, but I can't do ALL of them. I just don't have it in me.
Which brings me to the cognition issue. I'm scared stiff that I'm having real cognitive problems. I know that I need to go to the neuro and probably do the cognitive function testing. But I'm scared about what that will mean--whichever way it comes out. I'm scared that it will show real problems and I'll have to cope with that. I'm scared that it won't show a problem, and I'll be stuck in the same boat that I'm in now.
And if there is some reduction in cognitive function, how do I cope with that as a teacher? If I have a physical limitation, I get accomodations and I keep going. But as a teacher----if the problem/limitation is cognitive----seriously, what accomodation can be put in place for me at work for THAT??? I mean, wouldn't cognitive problems pretty much be the definition of "can't perform the responsibilities of the job"???
Maybe scariest of all is the fact that I have mixed feelings about what I "want" to be the solution to this. Is it horrible of me to sometimes wish that I could go on disability? I feel horrible even thinking it, but the thought of not having to deal with all this, of getting my brain back to myself.....the relief that I get from even contemplating it....
What to think? What to do? Tell me I'm not alone!
I apologize now if this post starts to ramble--I'm so shaken up about this recently, and I don't quite know if I have a 'question' or just need to vent. Anyway, here goes:
I'm TERRIFIED about cognitive problems. Quake in my boots, sob into my pillow TERRIFIED. This is my 16th year teaching, but only my 3rd at my current school. I teach upper level (junior & senior) Spanish classes. This school is a very high-achieving, high-pressure, high-expectation place, and I find myself always drowning here. I don't know if it would have been any different if I'd stayed at my old school or not. I teach 6 classes a day, total of 150 students (which is nothing compared to what some teachers have, I know!) and I can just never keep up. By the time I'm done with my teaching day, I just don't have the mental energy to do anything else. Nothing at all, besides lay on the couch, pet the dog, and watch tv. Which sucks, but I could handle it, if that's all there was to it. But we all know it isn't--hours of planning & preparing, more hours of grading...I just feel like I can NOT do it all!!! We are on 6-week grading periods, and we just ended the 2nd grade period a week and a half ago. My principal came to me to talk about my grades--not the kids' actual final grades, but that parents were contacting him (not me, not my dept chair--straight to the principal! Grrr) with concerns about how few grades I had taken in my classes.
Talk about breaking down! Thank God I have the best husband in the world! He is so supportive and loving. I don't know what I would have done if he hadn't been there to help me cope. Even with his support, though, I had a good 3 days of near-total meltdown. I'm not a good enough teacher for this school, I just can't do it, what's wrong with me (well, other than the obvious...) and on and on.
But what it all boils down to is this: the REASON that I had so few grades in the grading period is the mental fatigue. I take the essays home to grade (because I just have to get OUT of school!) but then I just can't even wrap my head around the idea of even reading them, much less concentrating enough to grade anything. I try to read them, but I just can't focus on it. I know that grading stuff takes a while, but it shouldn't be harder for me to read than it was for the kids to write!
On several occasions I've told my husband that I feel like I can EITHER teach, OR lesson plan, OR grade, but I can't do ALL of them. I just don't have it in me.
Which brings me to the cognition issue. I'm scared stiff that I'm having real cognitive problems. I know that I need to go to the neuro and probably do the cognitive function testing. But I'm scared about what that will mean--whichever way it comes out. I'm scared that it will show real problems and I'll have to cope with that. I'm scared that it won't show a problem, and I'll be stuck in the same boat that I'm in now.
And if there is some reduction in cognitive function, how do I cope with that as a teacher? If I have a physical limitation, I get accomodations and I keep going. But as a teacher----if the problem/limitation is cognitive----seriously, what accomodation can be put in place for me at work for THAT??? I mean, wouldn't cognitive problems pretty much be the definition of "can't perform the responsibilities of the job"???
Maybe scariest of all is the fact that I have mixed feelings about what I "want" to be the solution to this. Is it horrible of me to sometimes wish that I could go on disability? I feel horrible even thinking it, but the thought of not having to deal with all this, of getting my brain back to myself.....the relief that I get from even contemplating it....
What to think? What to do? Tell me I'm not alone!
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