I need opinions of others who have MS about having a home etc.
Here is the background.
I bought a house about 13 years ago before marrying my husband. The house is a long way from his work, but the payments are low, and the amount owed on the house is well below the selling prices of the houses in the area.
He has began to pressure me to sell the house and get something closer to his work so he does not have to commute so far.
My feelings are that a) we could not buy/rent a place even half the size of what we have now for the cost of my monthly mortgage payments, and b) If I ever get into the position where I can't work, this is the only thing I have of value that I can sell and keep me afloat until SSDI is approved.
My husband does not seem to grasp the importance of why keeping the house is important.
Am I being selfish for wanting to keep the house, or should I give in and sell the house and move some place closer to his work.
Here is the background.
I bought a house about 13 years ago before marrying my husband. The house is a long way from his work, but the payments are low, and the amount owed on the house is well below the selling prices of the houses in the area.
He has began to pressure me to sell the house and get something closer to his work so he does not have to commute so far.
My feelings are that a) we could not buy/rent a place even half the size of what we have now for the cost of my monthly mortgage payments, and b) If I ever get into the position where I can't work, this is the only thing I have of value that I can sell and keep me afloat until SSDI is approved.
My husband does not seem to grasp the importance of why keeping the house is important.
Am I being selfish for wanting to keep the house, or should I give in and sell the house and move some place closer to his work.
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