Im DH was dx in April 2010. Slowly MS has become a huge part of our relationship almost like a 3rd person thats always there.I can't talk to him anymore about anything thats bothering me. Everytime i try i get sidetracked by some new problem he is facing and we shift the focus to him again. None of my problems seem important enough by comparision and i don't want him to be bothered about mine. He is going through so much as it is i just try to be there for him. i can't bring myself to talk about my feelings to him. I can't talk to anyone else because i don't know anyone who is or has gone through a similar situation. My friends and family offer pity and a sympathetic ear but i don't want that! I just want to be understood. I just feel so alone now. I miss my husband.
I thought i'd get used to this shift in our relationship but its getting harder and harder. I feel like it can't be healthy to have just a one sided communication in the long run...Does any one have any advice?
I thought i'd get used to this shift in our relationship but its getting harder and harder. I feel like it can't be healthy to have just a one sided communication in the long run...Does any one have any advice?
Comment