How do you deal with "indifference" by others? I'm having difficulty adjusting to my family's indifference to my MS. I was dx 18 years ago, started on Avonex 15 years ago, my MS has progressed slowly.
I do feel blessed to have the options of tx's today, but I'm no longer working due to fatigue, cognitive issues, balance, bladder, blind in right eye, etc. I feel like "a little old lady" in my mid-forties. I assume that, since I was always the over-achiever, they "don't get it."
I was dx in my twenties and put up a good fight against the MonSter. I pushed through a bad marriage, worked hard on completing my master's degree, etc. I felt it was a "race to the finish" in doing all that I could. The more I accomplished and the faster I went. . .maybe I could outpace the MonSter. Denial can be nice, too.
But, because "I still look so good" my family is just horrible at times. I'm told "I'm lazy and I don't deserve SSDI" etc. I get little help from my family and/or the government. I get enough to get by I suppose.
But, at times, I am outraged at their indifference! Really?! I want to ask: You do remember that I was dx with multiple sclerosis in my twenties, You do understand that MS is a progressive, debilitating, disease, etc. . .UGH!!!
Has anyone dealt with these issues? I guess that venting can help, too, right?
I do feel blessed to have the options of tx's today, but I'm no longer working due to fatigue, cognitive issues, balance, bladder, blind in right eye, etc. I feel like "a little old lady" in my mid-forties. I assume that, since I was always the over-achiever, they "don't get it."
I was dx in my twenties and put up a good fight against the MonSter. I pushed through a bad marriage, worked hard on completing my master's degree, etc. I felt it was a "race to the finish" in doing all that I could. The more I accomplished and the faster I went. . .maybe I could outpace the MonSter. Denial can be nice, too.
But, because "I still look so good" my family is just horrible at times. I'm told "I'm lazy and I don't deserve SSDI" etc. I get little help from my family and/or the government. I get enough to get by I suppose.
But, at times, I am outraged at their indifference! Really?! I want to ask: You do remember that I was dx with multiple sclerosis in my twenties, You do understand that MS is a progressive, debilitating, disease, etc. . .UGH!!!
Has anyone dealt with these issues? I guess that venting can help, too, right?
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