I just wanted input on what you might have done or how I could have handled the situtation better.
My DH's family was over (about 30) and one member brought a new baby along. A beautiful child and one I'd have loved to hold and rock for hrs once upon a time.
I made an excuse though as I was afraid I'd drop her. She's tiny, a preemie. I didn't want to just blurt out that I have MS and really shouldn't without being on a sofa or cushy chair where I'd have support. I just said I'd rather not hold the baby in the type of chair (a bar stool) I was sitting in and that I was afraid I drop her.
The yount mother picked the baby up out of her carrier and handed her to me. I was petrified that something would go numb or weak and I'd drop her. I held her for a few minutes then handed her over so someone else could ahve a turn. Later, I was encouraged, again by the young mother, to hold the baby some more but did manage to decline.
There were so many people and it was such a happy event I hated to get into MS and put a damper on things but still I was naturally unwilling to do something that might hurt the baby.
What would you ahve done?
My DH's family was over (about 30) and one member brought a new baby along. A beautiful child and one I'd have loved to hold and rock for hrs once upon a time.
I made an excuse though as I was afraid I'd drop her. She's tiny, a preemie. I didn't want to just blurt out that I have MS and really shouldn't without being on a sofa or cushy chair where I'd have support. I just said I'd rather not hold the baby in the type of chair (a bar stool) I was sitting in and that I was afraid I drop her.
The yount mother picked the baby up out of her carrier and handed her to me. I was petrified that something would go numb or weak and I'd drop her. I held her for a few minutes then handed her over so someone else could ahve a turn. Later, I was encouraged, again by the young mother, to hold the baby some more but did manage to decline.
There were so many people and it was such a happy event I hated to get into MS and put a damper on things but still I was naturally unwilling to do something that might hurt the baby.
What would you ahve done?
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