I have an almost 8 year old son and a 19 year old son. I just sat my 19 year old down and told him about my MS. He started bawling! I've had quite a lot of problems with this kid for the past year and a half or so and I truly thought he hated me and now he can't stop crying because I'm sick. I was completely shocked by his reaction.
I tried explaining to him that I'm not going to die from this, etc. etc. But he's very upset. The good news is that when we got done he called a friend of his to see if they could go hang out and while on the phone he told his friend about my MS and the friend's mother actually has MS too! She was diagnosed officially 7 years ago and is still walking and working and I think that made him feel a little better.
I'm not going to tell my younger son anything just yet. I want to wait for more information from the neurologist. I just felt my older son needed to know because I'm going to need his help...such as yard work that I simply am physically unable to do right now.
*sigh* This sucks and all I want to do right now is cry my eyes out too. It was heartbreaking to see my tough 19 year old son break down like that
I tried explaining to him that I'm not going to die from this, etc. etc. But he's very upset. The good news is that when we got done he called a friend of his to see if they could go hang out and while on the phone he told his friend about my MS and the friend's mother actually has MS too! She was diagnosed officially 7 years ago and is still walking and working and I think that made him feel a little better.
I'm not going to tell my younger son anything just yet. I want to wait for more information from the neurologist. I just felt my older son needed to know because I'm going to need his help...such as yard work that I simply am physically unable to do right now.
*sigh* This sucks and all I want to do right now is cry my eyes out too. It was heartbreaking to see my tough 19 year old son break down like that
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