Sam and I were married for nearly 46 years. In that time we were both caregivers to each other at one time or another. In the last 2 years I was a full time caregiver to Sam, watching him suffer, picking him up when he fell, giving him meds and sending him to the E/R more times than I can count. In the end I was with him when he took his last breath.
I am going thru an awful grieving period that will never end. But I am so happy that I was with him thru it all. I would never abandon him in his darkest hour. Our family did everything he wanted... honored all his wishes. It wasn't easy letting him go. But we are comforted in knowing we did what he wanted and kept him at home till the end.
Life and death are going to happen one way or another. You will find out how much he means to you or how much you mean to you.
I am going thru an awful grieving period that will never end. But I am so happy that I was with him thru it all. I would never abandon him in his darkest hour. Our family did everything he wanted... honored all his wishes. It wasn't easy letting him go. But we are comforted in knowing we did what he wanted and kept him at home till the end.
Life and death are going to happen one way or another. You will find out how much he means to you or how much you mean to you.
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