I’ve considered counseling but honestly someone without this curse isn’t going to understand the endless misery I feel. Sometimes I think no one understands. My bf seems to think all is ok because there was no new issues. .
He just doesn’t get it and the more I see that the more i think I really do need to be alone because he has this idea that If I ever do get to the nightmare I envision we will find a way to deal. I promise I already have my backup plan set up. Hopefully I’ll never need it but if I get to that point I’m going to be in control not this curse. .
I can’t be responsible for one of my own animals suffering. I see enough sad crap at work. I don’t need more with my own animals. Still haven’t gotten over when my favorite patient was attacked by a big dog (big dogs owner did not have her under control) I still have her picture and card from her owner on my fridge. Made the mistake of reading the card last night again. This was a bad week to do that. But that reminded me I don’t want anything to happen to my dog or cats because I’m not able to care for them. (What happened was in no way the owner of my favorite patients fault) but it reminded me what can happen even when someone is normal. I don’t want to have my mind go so far I forget to feed my cats for a week. .
But again as for counseling I’m at the point to where I’ve accepted my life will never be better. I’ll never be happy and I just want to make it as long as possible without losing my ability to decide what happens to me. A counselor won’t get that. Honestly I feel like half the people here don’t either.
He just doesn’t get it and the more I see that the more i think I really do need to be alone because he has this idea that If I ever do get to the nightmare I envision we will find a way to deal. I promise I already have my backup plan set up. Hopefully I’ll never need it but if I get to that point I’m going to be in control not this curse. .
I can’t be responsible for one of my own animals suffering. I see enough sad crap at work. I don’t need more with my own animals. Still haven’t gotten over when my favorite patient was attacked by a big dog (big dogs owner did not have her under control) I still have her picture and card from her owner on my fridge. Made the mistake of reading the card last night again. This was a bad week to do that. But that reminded me I don’t want anything to happen to my dog or cats because I’m not able to care for them. (What happened was in no way the owner of my favorite patients fault) but it reminded me what can happen even when someone is normal. I don’t want to have my mind go so far I forget to feed my cats for a week. .
But again as for counseling I’m at the point to where I’ve accepted my life will never be better. I’ll never be happy and I just want to make it as long as possible without losing my ability to decide what happens to me. A counselor won’t get that. Honestly I feel like half the people here don’t either.
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