Originally posted by tommylee
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I am guessing your wife will quickly burn out on trying to win you back. The BFs who went on their knees begging me to take them back soon were off in search of finding other women to make miserable (thank God, there were no stalkers in the bunch!). Of course, we are talking crummy BFs and not spouses, and most importantly, there were no shared children (once there are kids involved, married or not, the situation changes dramatically). There is that forever bond. My husband's parents waited until their kids were grown to divorce, and for years they lived peacefully without having anything to do with each other, but then came all the marriages, grandchildren, and ceremonies/parties/social events that come with it. The mother of your children is always going to be there in some way and you will have to figure out how your going to deal with it. I wish you peace during this time of transition.
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