The way I look at "causes" or "reasons why" is this: The people putting forth such theories are just trying to make themselves feel better, cope with the possibility of illness, or exercise control.
For instance, if I can tell you that situation "x" (be it sickness or whatever) is absolutely caused by factor "y"...then I have power. I'll just avoid factor "y", or conquer factor "y" in my life, and I won't find myself in situation "x."
People do it everyday in a million situations just like they do it with disease. If something bad happens to a child, I might think, "Well if I was their parent I would have never let such and such happen.....(fill in the blank.)" And in a way that's self comforting because I'm assuring myself that that bad thing will never happen to my child because I can control the situation.
Anyhoo...that's what I think is happening when people try to find reasons for illness. BTW, it's as old as the book of Job in the Bible (supposedly the first book written, and maybe for good cause.) His friends said these things happened to you because you did this, or didn't do that...which was really not the case, they were just trying to assure themselves that the things that happened to Job wouldn't happen to them.
Just my 2 cents.
For instance, if I can tell you that situation "x" (be it sickness or whatever) is absolutely caused by factor "y"...then I have power. I'll just avoid factor "y", or conquer factor "y" in my life, and I won't find myself in situation "x."
People do it everyday in a million situations just like they do it with disease. If something bad happens to a child, I might think, "Well if I was their parent I would have never let such and such happen.....(fill in the blank.)" And in a way that's self comforting because I'm assuring myself that that bad thing will never happen to my child because I can control the situation.
Anyhoo...that's what I think is happening when people try to find reasons for illness. BTW, it's as old as the book of Job in the Bible (supposedly the first book written, and maybe for good cause.) His friends said these things happened to you because you did this, or didn't do that...which was really not the case, they were just trying to assure themselves that the things that happened to Job wouldn't happen to them.
Just my 2 cents.
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