My brother
I thought very hard about posting this. My hope is that you see that everyone is hurt. Those left behind and those who take there lifes. When they take there lifes they may not know they hurt us but I think if they knew they did...they would rethink the thought.
Oct 8th will be 3yrs since my brother killed himself. He wasn't sick, he was a father to a wonderful smart little girl. He had me and our sisters, our mom and dad, my kids, so much to live for! His wife was playing games with there marriage and he didn't want to be a "part-time" dad like ours was...so all he saw was this black hole. He took so much of my heart that day that I can't ever tell my DH or kids.
I got a call from his wife @ 7:30am that the secretary found a note and she had called 911. I shoved my kids in the van and drove over to my SL house for my niece and SL. I called my mom who went to the shop and she did cpr on her son...same shop my stepdad had a massive heart attack in and my mom did cpr on him to. My brother knew how to make himself fall asleep and never wakeup...he didn't wake up. I ended up driving myself and SL to the shop while the police did there stuff. I was the rock for everyone in this. I had to go tell my gma. Nobody else wanted the job. Then the family fighting started and I was neutral for everyone so who heard it all...ME.
He lived 2 blocks from me. My Dh and I had to tell our kids that Uncle Sean had died. When asked how...we lied.
I understand if you reach your point. I think every day...why didn't he just call and talk to me. He didn't call because once you reach that final point talking won't help you. You need to talk before you get to that spot.
He left behind so very much!!! Did he know he was leaving this all behind and hurting us all this much. No he didn't didn't. It truely is a black hole. Once you reach it...
I miss him! I don't talk about it. I don't talk about that day. I don't talk about him very much. The day I forgot the sound of his voice was the day he took more of my heart.
isamadjul
(allyson)
I thought very hard about posting this. My hope is that you see that everyone is hurt. Those left behind and those who take there lifes. When they take there lifes they may not know they hurt us but I think if they knew they did...they would rethink the thought.
Oct 8th will be 3yrs since my brother killed himself. He wasn't sick, he was a father to a wonderful smart little girl. He had me and our sisters, our mom and dad, my kids, so much to live for! His wife was playing games with there marriage and he didn't want to be a "part-time" dad like ours was...so all he saw was this black hole. He took so much of my heart that day that I can't ever tell my DH or kids.
I got a call from his wife @ 7:30am that the secretary found a note and she had called 911. I shoved my kids in the van and drove over to my SL house for my niece and SL. I called my mom who went to the shop and she did cpr on her son...same shop my stepdad had a massive heart attack in and my mom did cpr on him to. My brother knew how to make himself fall asleep and never wakeup...he didn't wake up. I ended up driving myself and SL to the shop while the police did there stuff. I was the rock for everyone in this. I had to go tell my gma. Nobody else wanted the job. Then the family fighting started and I was neutral for everyone so who heard it all...ME.
He lived 2 blocks from me. My Dh and I had to tell our kids that Uncle Sean had died. When asked how...we lied.
I understand if you reach your point. I think every day...why didn't he just call and talk to me. He didn't call because once you reach that final point talking won't help you. You need to talk before you get to that spot.
He left behind so very much!!! Did he know he was leaving this all behind and hurting us all this much. No he didn't didn't. It truely is a black hole. Once you reach it...
I miss him! I don't talk about it. I don't talk about that day. I don't talk about him very much. The day I forgot the sound of his voice was the day he took more of my heart.
isamadjul
(allyson)
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