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    Intimacy question

    Sorry if this is too much information, but I need to know if anyone else has experienced this, and if so, any way to prevent it from happening again.

    I am 50 years old now, but still manage to have an orgasm most of the time it is required .

    Last night, I was just beginning to start, when all of a sudden a tight band wrapped around my lower abdomen, causing me to scream and cry in pain. I had to push my DH away, have him help me to standing, and just tried to be still for about a minute before the cramping stopped.

    I have had it do this to a lesser degree before during the same intimate moment, but I was able to move around enough to get it to stop so we could finish.

    I hurt so bad I was in tears, I left my DH in a sorry state because he was so panicked about my reaction, and now I'm afraid he will be scared to "share the moment" again because I may get hurt!

    Could this be a type of MS hug? I certainly don't get one by lowering my chin, but imagine this type of intense cramping/banding/muscle tightness around my lower abdomen could be just that!

    Any help on this sensitive subject would be nice. Thanks in advance.
    Brenda
    Adversity gives you two choices in life: either let it make you bitter, or let it make you better! I choose the latter.
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    #2
    Hi Brenda,

    I am sorry you had such a bad experience

    I wonder if your pain was related to muscle spasms. I sometimes have a problem with spasms and tightness in my legs around that time. I have learned if I use something for spasticity before there is not a problem during
    Diagnosed 1984
    “Lightworkers aren’t here to avoid the darkness…they are here to transform the darkness through the illuminating power of love.” Muses from a mystic

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      #3
      I really don't take anything for spasms, haven't had much trouble. This is kind of like one big charlie horse around my lower abdomen. I just saw my neuro the morning before this happened, so I don't have another appt. until December.

      My DH just smiles and gives me "don't look at me that way" until you get it figured out.

      I guess I'll just have to see.

      Thanks for answering me.
      Brenda
      Adversity gives you two choices in life: either let it make you bitter, or let it make you better! I choose the latter.

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        #4
        I'm in agreement with Snoopy. Have your neuro prescribe something for spasms or an anti-spasticity med and take it beforehand. Experiment with the med first though because you may have to tweak the dose. Some of those anti-spasticity meds can make you so drowsy you can't stay awake.

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