Hello,
I am not exactly sure how to word this here goes...
I finally got up the courage to leave my husband of 16 years. As he reminds me he never hit me, but he has been verbally abusive to me and my 4 girls and has abused me in other ways. He is telling me he does not want a divorce and loves me so much. In the very next breath he is blaming all of this on my MS and says that I have had a personality change due to the MS. He is very manipulative and makes me question myself all of the time. I know it is difficult to understand my situation and make any judgements, but I was just wondering if anyone else with MS has had personality changes - he seems to suggest that there are a lot of articles on this. I told him my personality change was actually me standing up for myself and no longer putting up with the "other abuse", which of course he denies ever happened.
The reason I ask is because I am starting to feel bad for breaking up the family and his heart. My mom and my sisters stand behind me 100% and tell me it is him. Maybe it is my low self esteem I still question myself.
I am not exactly sure how to word this here goes...
I finally got up the courage to leave my husband of 16 years. As he reminds me he never hit me, but he has been verbally abusive to me and my 4 girls and has abused me in other ways. He is telling me he does not want a divorce and loves me so much. In the very next breath he is blaming all of this on my MS and says that I have had a personality change due to the MS. He is very manipulative and makes me question myself all of the time. I know it is difficult to understand my situation and make any judgements, but I was just wondering if anyone else with MS has had personality changes - he seems to suggest that there are a lot of articles on this. I told him my personality change was actually me standing up for myself and no longer putting up with the "other abuse", which of course he denies ever happened.
The reason I ask is because I am starting to feel bad for breaking up the family and his heart. My mom and my sisters stand behind me 100% and tell me it is him. Maybe it is my low self esteem I still question myself.
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