my dad has been diagnosed with ms since 1989, things were ok for awhile , my mom not being able to deal with the disease buried herself in work and everything else to "hide" from the reality , i was 9 and told that i had to grow up now cause dad was sick and i needed to look out for my sister ,i felt scared and alone , in my teenageyears i started rebelling i guess it was a cry for attention , the more and more i rebelled the less attention i got , this cycle happened until well into my 20's. i became a drug addict , had a abusive relationship and finally landed in jail. since 2004 i have changed drastically , no more drugs , no more jail , im married and have 3 kids, my problem now lays to the fact that 3 years ago while my family and i were living in az mom called and asked us to please come back she needed help with dad, biggest mistake i ever made was coming back, now dad is stuck on one topic my past.
he repeats himself over and over , out of nowhere has decided i need to divorce my husband , calls the police almost daily to have him removed from the home , he calls me the stupid ***** in front of my kids , the police believe that i am abusing him and when it all comes down my mother is nowhere to be found... we diddnt realize how bad the economy has become so its been immpossible getting jobs , weare now working retail etc.. far from we arenormally doing, my father degrades me from thetime i wake up til i go to bed,has seperated me from my husband he has always been controlling but im an adult he cannot script my life.. my mother backs him in fear he will turn on her, all family members and old friends have been pushed away..
i feel like i have nowhere to turn noonebelives me ..he ha**** me withhis wheelchair has said he hates me andcalls me everything immaginable , i dont want my kids growing up like i did . my father will not allowanyone to know his drs or anything about his progression and mom has issentally given up and chooses to live in the dark , she takes no innitiave to do anything.. i dont know what to do another episode happened awhile ago and he as usual called 911 he was advised to get a restraining order on me.. now i have 0 money , nowhere to go and he laughs at the fact that me , my husband and 2 of my kids will be homeless.. my oldest daughter he has decided can stay..and tellsher things like watch your mom when he leaves... i have no where to turn im so scared
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he repeats himself over and over , out of nowhere has decided i need to divorce my husband , calls the police almost daily to have him removed from the home , he calls me the stupid ***** in front of my kids , the police believe that i am abusing him and when it all comes down my mother is nowhere to be found... we diddnt realize how bad the economy has become so its been immpossible getting jobs , weare now working retail etc.. far from we arenormally doing, my father degrades me from thetime i wake up til i go to bed,has seperated me from my husband he has always been controlling but im an adult he cannot script my life.. my mother backs him in fear he will turn on her, all family members and old friends have been pushed away..
i feel like i have nowhere to turn noonebelives me ..he ha**** me withhis wheelchair has said he hates me andcalls me everything immaginable , i dont want my kids growing up like i did . my father will not allowanyone to know his drs or anything about his progression and mom has issentally given up and chooses to live in the dark , she takes no innitiave to do anything.. i dont know what to do another episode happened awhile ago and he as usual called 911 he was advised to get a restraining order on me.. now i have 0 money , nowhere to go and he laughs at the fact that me , my husband and 2 of my kids will be homeless.. my oldest daughter he has decided can stay..and tellsher things like watch your mom when he leaves... i have no where to turn im so scared
** Moderator's note - Post broken into paragraphs for easier reading. Many people with MS have visual difficulties that prevent them from reading large blocks of print. **
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