I HAVE BEEN DX WITH MS GOING ON 13YRS. MY HUSBAND AND I ARE ABOUT TO HAVE OUR 5YR ANNIVERSARY.
ONE OF THE BIGGEST REASONS I FELL IN LOVE WITH HIM WAS BECAUSE ON OUR FIRST DATE WE TALKED ABOUT MY MS AND HE WAS COMPLETELY SUPPORTIVE, UNDERSTANDING, AND TOLD ME HE WOULD TAKE CARE OF ME NO MATTER WHAT.
WELL 5YRS LATER THINGS HAVE CHANGED SO MUCH BETWEEN US. I'M FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO HAVE MORE GOOD DAYS THAN BAD AND HE SEE'S THAT AS I AM HEALTHY AND JUST FINE.
I HAVE TRIED TALKING TO HIM ABOUT THE SPOON THEORY AND HE JUST DOESN'T SEEM TO GET IT. I CONTINUE TO PUSH AND PUSH MYSELF TO PLEASE HIM AND FEEL LIKE MY LUCK WILL SOON RUN OUT.
IN MY HEART I DO NOT FEEL LIKE IF I WERE TO HAVE A REALLY BAD RELAPSE AGAIN THAT HE WOULD BE THERE FOR ME BUT AT THE SAME TIME I STAY WITH ME BECAUSE I AM SO AFRAID OF BEING ALONE.
I AM FINANCIALLY DEPENDENT ON HIM PAYING OUR BILLS DUE TO MY LACK OF HOLDING DOWN ANYTHING BUT PART TIME WORK. I CANNOT APPLY FOR SSD BECAUSE I AM NOT DISABLED JUST HAVE LIMITATIONS.
IT DOES NOT FEEL LIKE A MARRIAGE I LIVE IN, IT'S MORE LIKE ROOMMATES THAT JUST KIND OF IGNORE AND PUT UP WITH THE THINGS THAT IRRITATE US ABOUT EACH OTHER.
HE WONT COMMUNICATE WITH ME SO I DON'T REALLY KNOW HOW HE HONESTLY FEELS AND HE REFUSES TO GO TO MARRIAGE COUNSELING WITH ME.
I KNOW THAT I CANT CHANGE HIM. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO NOT FEEL SO TRAPPED. I HAVE THIS ONE LIFE THAT I FEEL LIKE I'M WASTING BY BEING MISERABLE ALL BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO BE ALONE.
PLEASE SOMEBODY OUT THERE TELL ME I'M NOT COMPLETELY MAD BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE I AM AT A SERIOUS BREAKING POINT.
THANKS FOR LISTENING,
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ONE OF THE BIGGEST REASONS I FELL IN LOVE WITH HIM WAS BECAUSE ON OUR FIRST DATE WE TALKED ABOUT MY MS AND HE WAS COMPLETELY SUPPORTIVE, UNDERSTANDING, AND TOLD ME HE WOULD TAKE CARE OF ME NO MATTER WHAT.
WELL 5YRS LATER THINGS HAVE CHANGED SO MUCH BETWEEN US. I'M FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO HAVE MORE GOOD DAYS THAN BAD AND HE SEE'S THAT AS I AM HEALTHY AND JUST FINE.
I HAVE TRIED TALKING TO HIM ABOUT THE SPOON THEORY AND HE JUST DOESN'T SEEM TO GET IT. I CONTINUE TO PUSH AND PUSH MYSELF TO PLEASE HIM AND FEEL LIKE MY LUCK WILL SOON RUN OUT.
IN MY HEART I DO NOT FEEL LIKE IF I WERE TO HAVE A REALLY BAD RELAPSE AGAIN THAT HE WOULD BE THERE FOR ME BUT AT THE SAME TIME I STAY WITH ME BECAUSE I AM SO AFRAID OF BEING ALONE.
I AM FINANCIALLY DEPENDENT ON HIM PAYING OUR BILLS DUE TO MY LACK OF HOLDING DOWN ANYTHING BUT PART TIME WORK. I CANNOT APPLY FOR SSD BECAUSE I AM NOT DISABLED JUST HAVE LIMITATIONS.
IT DOES NOT FEEL LIKE A MARRIAGE I LIVE IN, IT'S MORE LIKE ROOMMATES THAT JUST KIND OF IGNORE AND PUT UP WITH THE THINGS THAT IRRITATE US ABOUT EACH OTHER.
HE WONT COMMUNICATE WITH ME SO I DON'T REALLY KNOW HOW HE HONESTLY FEELS AND HE REFUSES TO GO TO MARRIAGE COUNSELING WITH ME.
I KNOW THAT I CANT CHANGE HIM. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO NOT FEEL SO TRAPPED. I HAVE THIS ONE LIFE THAT I FEEL LIKE I'M WASTING BY BEING MISERABLE ALL BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO BE ALONE.
PLEASE SOMEBODY OUT THERE TELL ME I'M NOT COMPLETELY MAD BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE I AM AT A SERIOUS BREAKING POINT.
THANKS FOR LISTENING,
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