Finally. Someone who understands. My husband was dx in 2000, tried a variety of meds but the MS was so mild at the time we decided the side affects were not worth the quality of life. About 7 years ago he hurt his back severely and could not do the job he had done for 15 years. He was able to migrate to another position but not without extreme stress. It finally caused a sever episode when he took a leave of absence.
He found another job making 1/2 the pay but that lasted less than a year. He has now been out of work for 5 month, extremely depressed and to top things off his back has started causing major problems again. Although he has not had any episodes since last year I can see the financial strain and the pain from his back is causing problems. He is extremely depressed, and when things get too rough his system just shuts down and he sleeps. This has been the most difficult week yet, I have yet to be able to have a decent conversation with him. Feeling very disconnected.
We have been married going on 20 years with 4 kids that need our love, attention and support. Some days it is just too difficult. Work gives me enough stress, home gives me more stress. Just doesn't seem like there is any light at the end of the tunnel. I keep reading that the "caregiver" has to take care of themselves too. HOW???? between work, the house, the kids, the finances, the doctor appointments and everything else how in the world do you find a way to recharge? OK my rant is over. At least for the time being.
He found another job making 1/2 the pay but that lasted less than a year. He has now been out of work for 5 month, extremely depressed and to top things off his back has started causing major problems again. Although he has not had any episodes since last year I can see the financial strain and the pain from his back is causing problems. He is extremely depressed, and when things get too rough his system just shuts down and he sleeps. This has been the most difficult week yet, I have yet to be able to have a decent conversation with him. Feeling very disconnected.
We have been married going on 20 years with 4 kids that need our love, attention and support. Some days it is just too difficult. Work gives me enough stress, home gives me more stress. Just doesn't seem like there is any light at the end of the tunnel. I keep reading that the "caregiver" has to take care of themselves too. HOW???? between work, the house, the kids, the finances, the doctor appointments and everything else how in the world do you find a way to recharge? OK my rant is over. At least for the time being.
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