Hello,
My mother has lived with MS for almost 20 years, and my Dad has been her caregiver. She hasn't walked for about 15 years and her strength in her upper body is failing. My dad has managed really well until the last year. He is tired and we (the kids) have been trying to help them find a solution. They can afford to move into a really nice assisted living apartment with help for my dad.
However, my mom is in denial about her condition and my dad's ability to keep taking care of her. In fact, in her interviews with the new facility and docs, she claims she can walk and dress herself!
She doesn't see the need to change her lifestyle, she thinks my dad is exaggerating the situation and she gets angry when anyone tries to discuss it.
Are there any resources you recommend to help us through this transition? I am trying to find a counselor who can help, but so far have had no luck!
My mother has lived with MS for almost 20 years, and my Dad has been her caregiver. She hasn't walked for about 15 years and her strength in her upper body is failing. My dad has managed really well until the last year. He is tired and we (the kids) have been trying to help them find a solution. They can afford to move into a really nice assisted living apartment with help for my dad.
However, my mom is in denial about her condition and my dad's ability to keep taking care of her. In fact, in her interviews with the new facility and docs, she claims she can walk and dress herself!
She doesn't see the need to change her lifestyle, she thinks my dad is exaggerating the situation and she gets angry when anyone tries to discuss it.
Are there any resources you recommend to help us through this transition? I am trying to find a counselor who can help, but so far have had no luck!
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