literally!! still smiling....... yet wearing thin.
Hi all..... yes same marriage issue. We've been in counseling with new marriage counselor who is awesome for a few mos. now.
she's great, is really into communication, how to, different perspectives, really has enlightened us both. Improvements seemed to come until......
yes you guessed it i'm tired again and can't be intimate. I said id' never promise anything. yet when i'm cornered I said yes. The only argument we have is over this as of late.
I feel horrible the way he treats me when i can't stay up late. He doesnt get in till going on 11:30 at night. i'm exhausted by than after school, my daughter, now other bus. idea i have.....
I said nicely on Friday days ago,and yes I quote "I'm sorry, I only got 4 hours last night because ("he" was snoring and refuses to wear a nose strip to prevent this) you were snoring. Ill try to take a nap later on tonight if i can. if so i'll stay up.
Well in return i got but you promised, i can't believe you. you purposely do this? wth? nasty nasty nasty. followed by days of ignoring me, returning home not talking to me. I take med earlier and head to bed. Leaving lights on on purpose while im; trying to sleep. Last night had tv in living room on till 3. I always ask please close my bedroom door if you stay up. left it open on purpose.
tried yet again today to talk to him. no go. he says to me it isnt' fair, he basically wants what he wants when he wants it. i told him as my husband you should be concerned with my well being, how i'm feeling. instead of throwing a fit over it making me feel worse. there are plenty of times i stay up and make an effort. His response i'm abusive because i dont give him what he wants, and also i say i'll do it and than i change if i'm tired.
i'm sooo outta ideas....... the marriage counselor can't seem to get thru to him. he listens to her, yet than if i god forbid get tired this is what i get. i told him maybe you should just admit you can't hack this afterall?
crazy right? does anyone else go through this type of insane self centered behavior?
Hi all..... yes same marriage issue. We've been in counseling with new marriage counselor who is awesome for a few mos. now.
she's great, is really into communication, how to, different perspectives, really has enlightened us both. Improvements seemed to come until......
yes you guessed it i'm tired again and can't be intimate. I said id' never promise anything. yet when i'm cornered I said yes. The only argument we have is over this as of late.
I feel horrible the way he treats me when i can't stay up late. He doesnt get in till going on 11:30 at night. i'm exhausted by than after school, my daughter, now other bus. idea i have.....
I said nicely on Friday days ago,and yes I quote "I'm sorry, I only got 4 hours last night because ("he" was snoring and refuses to wear a nose strip to prevent this) you were snoring. Ill try to take a nap later on tonight if i can. if so i'll stay up.
Well in return i got but you promised, i can't believe you. you purposely do this? wth? nasty nasty nasty. followed by days of ignoring me, returning home not talking to me. I take med earlier and head to bed. Leaving lights on on purpose while im; trying to sleep. Last night had tv in living room on till 3. I always ask please close my bedroom door if you stay up. left it open on purpose.
tried yet again today to talk to him. no go. he says to me it isnt' fair, he basically wants what he wants when he wants it. i told him as my husband you should be concerned with my well being, how i'm feeling. instead of throwing a fit over it making me feel worse. there are plenty of times i stay up and make an effort. His response i'm abusive because i dont give him what he wants, and also i say i'll do it and than i change if i'm tired.
i'm sooo outta ideas....... the marriage counselor can't seem to get thru to him. he listens to her, yet than if i god forbid get tired this is what i get. i told him maybe you should just admit you can't hack this afterall?
crazy right? does anyone else go through this type of insane self centered behavior?
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