Well it has been almost a month since we found out that my husband has MS. I have had some good days which has surprised me but today happens to be a very bad day. I was doing great today because we got an earlier appt with the neurologist that we are changing to. Then my 4 year old had meet the teacher night at her school and my husband had the off balance feeling he gets so often when he is around alot of people. After we left he told me that he did not know if he would be able to go to the first footbal game that is this Saturday because he does not think he can be around all of the people there.
Please understand that I am not mad that he can't go to a football game...this is just something we do together every year and there really is nothing else we do together. We love our team and have season tickets. I look forward to this every year because I get to be with my husband, no kids and just us. I am devestated. he has never been a big talker but now he barely communicates anything to me. I spend so much time making appts for him and calling drs for referrals and researching MS. I just feel that our lives are over and I had just started trying to tell myself that MS was not going to control our lives.
I am so sad...I just want something to end my life. I want to leave this place so that I do not have to deal with this. It is so unfair that our lives are being robbed. I just do not know how to deal with these feelings. I cannot afford to go to a therapist nor do I want to. People say it could be worse and the way my life is I am sure it will get worse. Apparently we are bad people and we are being punished!
Please understand that I am not mad that he can't go to a football game...this is just something we do together every year and there really is nothing else we do together. We love our team and have season tickets. I look forward to this every year because I get to be with my husband, no kids and just us. I am devestated. he has never been a big talker but now he barely communicates anything to me. I spend so much time making appts for him and calling drs for referrals and researching MS. I just feel that our lives are over and I had just started trying to tell myself that MS was not going to control our lives.
I am so sad...I just want something to end my life. I want to leave this place so that I do not have to deal with this. It is so unfair that our lives are being robbed. I just do not know how to deal with these feelings. I cannot afford to go to a therapist nor do I want to. People say it could be worse and the way my life is I am sure it will get worse. Apparently we are bad people and we are being punished!
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