I am new here and not sure how this works. My husband of almost 18yrs was diagnosed with ms 6 months ago. Things have gotten bad. I love my husband and I know the things he says are not him he has never talked to me this way, ever, It is difficult to watch him go thru this.
I have begged him to talk to someone since he will not talk to me about his disease. He pushes me away shuts me out, he has become so distant.
Recently he has left the house, I have a temporary restraining order in place because the verbal and mental abuse has gotten really bad. We have 5 children that are exposed to everything and it is not fair that they have to watch this. I love my husband, I wish we could get the help so we can learn to understand eachother and communicate. I dont know if he says the mean things because he thinks if i get mad enough I will leave and not have to watch him suffer with the disease. It doesnt make anything easier, I love my husband, no matter what, this disease doesnt make me love him any less, I will not turn my back on him now.
The navy doesnt help, they are not here for the family just their own, they do not see what our kids are going thru or myself. They say he is sick, well I know that we live with him, we live the aftermath and outbursts no them.
I am losing my family, my husband , I dont know what to do
I have begged him to talk to someone since he will not talk to me about his disease. He pushes me away shuts me out, he has become so distant.
Recently he has left the house, I have a temporary restraining order in place because the verbal and mental abuse has gotten really bad. We have 5 children that are exposed to everything and it is not fair that they have to watch this. I love my husband, I wish we could get the help so we can learn to understand eachother and communicate. I dont know if he says the mean things because he thinks if i get mad enough I will leave and not have to watch him suffer with the disease. It doesnt make anything easier, I love my husband, no matter what, this disease doesnt make me love him any less, I will not turn my back on him now.
The navy doesnt help, they are not here for the family just their own, they do not see what our kids are going thru or myself. They say he is sick, well I know that we live with him, we live the aftermath and outbursts no them.
I am losing my family, my husband , I dont know what to do
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