I get this . . .
And I agree with what the other poster said. I read somewhere that MS is like the third wheel in the relationship, like it's a mistress, getting in between couples all the time.
When he is overdoing it, I'm worrying, and so not enjoying myself with him and our friends.
And yes, when he is then exhausted the next day, not wanting to do anything and not his usual sweet fun self with me, I feel like he traded that fun time with me for having a fun time with his friends.
I get a double dose of no fun time with him and the worry, but he at least gets that fun time with his friends.
If he knowingly is overdoing it, it feels like he is making that choice, weighing the options and choosing them over me? Maybe that's what I'm trying to figure out how to express and make him understand.
I'm not sure if this is fair or right for me to think, but sometimes you can't help how you feel.
Originally posted by Jules A
View Post
When he is overdoing it, I'm worrying, and so not enjoying myself with him and our friends.
And yes, when he is then exhausted the next day, not wanting to do anything and not his usual sweet fun self with me, I feel like he traded that fun time with me for having a fun time with his friends.
I get a double dose of no fun time with him and the worry, but he at least gets that fun time with his friends.
If he knowingly is overdoing it, it feels like he is making that choice, weighing the options and choosing them over me? Maybe that's what I'm trying to figure out how to express and make him understand.
I'm not sure if this is fair or right for me to think, but sometimes you can't help how you feel.
Comment