I am new here and feel like my life has just been turned upside down. I feel selfish for thinking of myself when my DH is who may have MS. I am very scared for our lives and our future.
My DH was diagnosed with Graves disease 3 years ago and had his thyroid radioactively removed. Ever since then he has had more sx that look like MS. He had a MRI 2 weeks ago and was given the results on Thursday. I was not there because I did not even realize that they were doing tests to rule out something as big as MS. I feel very guilty for not being there. The Dr said he probably has MS. My DH does not have a very good rapport with this neurologist so he did not get alot of info from him. The Dr. wants to do more blood work and a spinal tap. My DH is not sure about the Spinal yet but will have the additional blood work done.
The past 3 days have been a roller coaster. People keep telling me that sometimes the side effects of thyroid meds mimic MS. My DH has what he calls tremors, he has anxiety, but his main sx is dizzy spells. When I read the material about MS I feel like he does not have MS but then I convince myself that I am in denial. My DH has not officially been diagnosed. My DH takes Levoxyl for his thyroid. He also takes Celexa for anxiety and Singulair for allergies.
We have 2 daughters that are 6 and 4. I do not want my DH to be in pain and I am very worried about the way this will change our lives. I worry that this will damage our marriage. I am scared that I will start to resent him because he will not be able to help me with housework and parenting. I am scared that my daughters will be burdened by having to grow up with a sick parent and it will limit their childhood(i.e travel and activities that they can participate in). I worry about the financial devastation. I start crying when I think about all of this. Earlier today I was questioning what I did or we did to deserve this punishment. I feel very helpless at this point and when I am not feeling helpless I am looking for another explanation for his sx's.
Please don't judge me and think I am selfish...I love my DH so much but I am very scared about the prognosis. I don't even think I understand what this disease will eventually do to my DH. Any words of wisdom will be greatly appreciated!
My DH was diagnosed with Graves disease 3 years ago and had his thyroid radioactively removed. Ever since then he has had more sx that look like MS. He had a MRI 2 weeks ago and was given the results on Thursday. I was not there because I did not even realize that they were doing tests to rule out something as big as MS. I feel very guilty for not being there. The Dr said he probably has MS. My DH does not have a very good rapport with this neurologist so he did not get alot of info from him. The Dr. wants to do more blood work and a spinal tap. My DH is not sure about the Spinal yet but will have the additional blood work done.
The past 3 days have been a roller coaster. People keep telling me that sometimes the side effects of thyroid meds mimic MS. My DH has what he calls tremors, he has anxiety, but his main sx is dizzy spells. When I read the material about MS I feel like he does not have MS but then I convince myself that I am in denial. My DH has not officially been diagnosed. My DH takes Levoxyl for his thyroid. He also takes Celexa for anxiety and Singulair for allergies.
We have 2 daughters that are 6 and 4. I do not want my DH to be in pain and I am very worried about the way this will change our lives. I worry that this will damage our marriage. I am scared that I will start to resent him because he will not be able to help me with housework and parenting. I am scared that my daughters will be burdened by having to grow up with a sick parent and it will limit their childhood(i.e travel and activities that they can participate in). I worry about the financial devastation. I start crying when I think about all of this. Earlier today I was questioning what I did or we did to deserve this punishment. I feel very helpless at this point and when I am not feeling helpless I am looking for another explanation for his sx's.
Please don't judge me and think I am selfish...I love my DH so much but I am very scared about the prognosis. I don't even think I understand what this disease will eventually do to my DH. Any words of wisdom will be greatly appreciated!
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