hmmm.. not sure what I want, just want my spouse to realize, recognize that the Military has Family Hardship excuse for deployment because It is hard on the family.
He is Air Force reserve and volunteered for 123 day deployment. I just went on disability last September. I am not a well person. I fall on a regular basis, sometimes needing trips to ER. I was annoyed he went, he is back now, and I am still mad.
Planning a visti to my mom's for a few days, so he can see how hard it is by himself to care for three kids. They are older kids, but that is not easy either.
I don't know what I want. just to say I'm sorry life is so hard for you.. I want the kind of husband that makes my life easier, not harder... ughgh He grew up with absentee father, maybe that is part of his problem? Time and again, I am last on the priority list.
Thanks for letting me vent a bit.
Rosemary
He is Air Force reserve and volunteered for 123 day deployment. I just went on disability last September. I am not a well person. I fall on a regular basis, sometimes needing trips to ER. I was annoyed he went, he is back now, and I am still mad.
Planning a visti to my mom's for a few days, so he can see how hard it is by himself to care for three kids. They are older kids, but that is not easy either.
I don't know what I want. just to say I'm sorry life is so hard for you.. I want the kind of husband that makes my life easier, not harder... ughgh He grew up with absentee father, maybe that is part of his problem? Time and again, I am last on the priority list.
Thanks for letting me vent a bit.
Rosemary
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