I’ve made a few observations about this board over the past month or so.
1. Some people here are amazing and truly want to help people, even when they disagree with them.
2. Some people cannot handle people who view things differently than they do. Maybe it’s because they are forced to evaluate their own life, or they think everyone who disagrees with them is wrong, or they just feel what they say is right and if someone doesn’t listen that person is wrong or looking for attention.
3. This board is like a high school – people “gang up” and pick on the person with the less popular opinions. I think everyone should have the right to say what they want to about this disease without the fear of offending someone or having someone go off on a rant.
Not everyone is going to have the same reaction to this and not everyone is going to want to “be positive” and all the stuff. It is bs and unfair that this is the life I was given. My goal before I do my end game plan is to make it to where anyone with a chronic disease will have the right to a death on their own terms. No one should have to fly half way across the world and die alone.
I will probably not post here as much ( after this weekend...)
the attitude of many people here made me know I will never go to a group meeting or therapy if this is how my view on this is going to be taken.
I will find my own way to deal with this which will include medication , occasional drinking ( when I am off the next day , waking up at 545 isn’t exactly fun when you had 3 bottles of wine the night before) , and hopefully moving to Colorado or Washington soon. I will still post venting here on occasion since I am not about to tell anyone in my real life about this. I have no desire for them to look at me like I am a frail and mindless broken person.
Because let’s be honest how many of you really knew much about this disease before you were diagnosed.
I just am at a loss to understand why my view of this is so offensive to some of you. Everything I know about this I have learned the past year from the internet and 95% of the things I read were terrible. I haven’t had the luxury of a Dr to ask questions to. So I have a question I have to use google.
1. Some people here are amazing and truly want to help people, even when they disagree with them.
2. Some people cannot handle people who view things differently than they do. Maybe it’s because they are forced to evaluate their own life, or they think everyone who disagrees with them is wrong, or they just feel what they say is right and if someone doesn’t listen that person is wrong or looking for attention.
3. This board is like a high school – people “gang up” and pick on the person with the less popular opinions. I think everyone should have the right to say what they want to about this disease without the fear of offending someone or having someone go off on a rant.
Not everyone is going to have the same reaction to this and not everyone is going to want to “be positive” and all the stuff. It is bs and unfair that this is the life I was given. My goal before I do my end game plan is to make it to where anyone with a chronic disease will have the right to a death on their own terms. No one should have to fly half way across the world and die alone.
I will probably not post here as much ( after this weekend...)
the attitude of many people here made me know I will never go to a group meeting or therapy if this is how my view on this is going to be taken.
I will find my own way to deal with this which will include medication , occasional drinking ( when I am off the next day , waking up at 545 isn’t exactly fun when you had 3 bottles of wine the night before) , and hopefully moving to Colorado or Washington soon. I will still post venting here on occasion since I am not about to tell anyone in my real life about this. I have no desire for them to look at me like I am a frail and mindless broken person.
Because let’s be honest how many of you really knew much about this disease before you were diagnosed.
I just am at a loss to understand why my view of this is so offensive to some of you. Everything I know about this I have learned the past year from the internet and 95% of the things I read were terrible. I haven’t had the luxury of a Dr to ask questions to. So I have a question I have to use google.
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