Daisycat,
Your post title included the question, “how do people deal with this?” and I have to say— you’ve gotten more responses to this question than any I’ve seen on msworld in the short time I’ve been a member, but it seems you don’t actually want to know how other members cope.
Many, many people have offered their sincere advice and shared their personal stories with you. Yet your stance is unchanged. And that’s ok. You’re 100% allowed to feel the way you want to feel 100% of the time. You can feel cheated, depressed and angry. I think a lot of people can relate to this at times.
However, the problem with wallowing is that it tends to blur the line between opinion and fact. Opinion, when not based on personal experience, can become fantasy.
The way you paint your potential future is bleak. Of course this COULD be the outcome. Also, you COULD be struck by lightning, bitten by a rabid dog, ran over by a bus. The point is: you have absolutely no idea.
Many people have suggested you consult a therapist and I echo that suggestion. I truly wish you the best and I truly believe you won’t feel this way forever. I believe that as you mature and learn more about this disease from educated sources, your outlook will become less bleak.
Your post title included the question, “how do people deal with this?” and I have to say— you’ve gotten more responses to this question than any I’ve seen on msworld in the short time I’ve been a member, but it seems you don’t actually want to know how other members cope.
Many, many people have offered their sincere advice and shared their personal stories with you. Yet your stance is unchanged. And that’s ok. You’re 100% allowed to feel the way you want to feel 100% of the time. You can feel cheated, depressed and angry. I think a lot of people can relate to this at times.
However, the problem with wallowing is that it tends to blur the line between opinion and fact. Opinion, when not based on personal experience, can become fantasy.
The way you paint your potential future is bleak. Of course this COULD be the outcome. Also, you COULD be struck by lightning, bitten by a rabid dog, ran over by a bus. The point is: you have absolutely no idea.
Many people have suggested you consult a therapist and I echo that suggestion. I truly wish you the best and I truly believe you won’t feel this way forever. I believe that as you mature and learn more about this disease from educated sources, your outlook will become less bleak.
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