Since Sam has gotten sick I've had to learn all kinds of new procedures. I just finally got the hang of the oxygen concentrator and now I'm dealing with the Inogen portable oxygen thing. I hate to say this but I fly into a rage over every new little thing I have to deal with. I guess I'm just tired... exhausted... from handling absolutely every little detail of his illness while taking care of all the day to day home/car/pet/yard stuff. You know?
I just don't know how to control my anxiety and this frustration over all this. It actually makes me sick at times. I'm happy to take care of him, but at the same time I guess I feel kind of resentful. I have not taken care of ME in a long time. I miss all my doctor visits because I just don't feel alive enough to go. No energy left. Anxiety that causes palpitations. A sick stomach.
Other than taking an occasional Xanax and a nightly 1/2 Klonapin I'm not helping myself. Can anyone advise me on controlling my anger and agitation? Any time I have to learn anything new it just throws me into a fit... trying to read instructions, listen to techs tell me what to do... sitting through the nurse visits and the PT visits, trying to learn now to exercise him and the endless note-taking so I don't forget all the neat little tips and instructions they give me.
This is no life for him. I know he's unhappy. And God help me... I have wished he could just go on. I'm thankful for the few days when he seems a little better and can do some things for himself. But I am just so exhausted.
Thanks for listening. This is not really a MS post.
I just don't know how to control my anxiety and this frustration over all this. It actually makes me sick at times. I'm happy to take care of him, but at the same time I guess I feel kind of resentful. I have not taken care of ME in a long time. I miss all my doctor visits because I just don't feel alive enough to go. No energy left. Anxiety that causes palpitations. A sick stomach.
Other than taking an occasional Xanax and a nightly 1/2 Klonapin I'm not helping myself. Can anyone advise me on controlling my anger and agitation? Any time I have to learn anything new it just throws me into a fit... trying to read instructions, listen to techs tell me what to do... sitting through the nurse visits and the PT visits, trying to learn now to exercise him and the endless note-taking so I don't forget all the neat little tips and instructions they give me.
This is no life for him. I know he's unhappy. And God help me... I have wished he could just go on. I'm thankful for the few days when he seems a little better and can do some things for himself. But I am just so exhausted.
Thanks for listening. This is not really a MS post.
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