I'm not sure what I'm looking for here...advice, empathy, a swift kick in the backside?
First some background.
I am currently 43 years old. I was diagnosed with RRMS in October of 2012. My symptoms started exactly on January 3, 2012 when I woke up that morning and my left pinky and ring finger down to my elbow was numb.
It's been numb ever since.
I was officially diagnosed in October 2012 when my MRI showed new lesions (at this stage, I only had lesions on my c-spine).
Christmas week of that year, I got my first bout of optic neuritis in my left eye and I was hospitalized for three days with IV Steroids. The vision in my left eye never fully recuperated.
My disease has been pretty quiet since then. I have many day-to-day symptoms such as numbness in tingling in my legs when I walk long distances, but nothing too limiting.
In the meantime, my husband's health has been declining and he is only 47 now. He does not have MS, but was diagnosed with non-typical Trigeminal Neuralgia (TN) during the summer of 2015.
Getting him on the appropriate medication so he can live a "normal" life was a very long road because he was allergic to the main drug that they give for this condition.
Once we got his TN under control, he got an infection in his mouth (Ludwig's Angina!) that caused him to spend a week in intensive care and have emergency surgery. This past summer, he had to have his hip replaced, then surgical site got infected, so he was back in the hospital again.
On February 5th, he lost his job, but later that month he found a new job...HOWEVER, two weeks ago he gets a tiny cut on his knee and it gets infected with MRSA...so it's back in the hospital again for emergency surgery...and now he's home with a wound vac and a picc line...not able to work.
I also have two kids so I have been basically holding up my family by myself for years now.
During this time I am noticing a subtle uptick in my MS symptoms. One thing is that I notice I can no longer walk more than 5 minutes without my thighs going completely numb. In about July 2017, I also notice a decline in my vision of my left eye. I visited my opthamologist (who I had been a patient of since diagnosed with MS) and he didn't see any changes.
I had been taking Gilenya for many years but I stopped taking it about a year ago because I hated dealing with the specialty pharmacy. I ended up getting on a MS drug study in November, just for the free meds and the close monitoring.
So about three weeks ago, just after the time of my husband getting a new job, I realized that the vision in my right eye was diminished. I had just had a whole vision work-up (with a new eye glasses prescription) in December and I had my yearly visit with my Neuro in February and nothing was going on.
I should note though, when I got my MRI to be on the MS drug study (November 2017), I had two new lesions on my brain (which I never had any before) and one was active.
My vision had been getting worse and worse, but I had chalked it up to stress from my husband's issues and I just ignored it--I figured it couldn't be optic neuritis because I did not have any pain. On Easter Sunday, the flashes started, which motivated me to email my neurologist.
I get an appointment with the Neurologist on that Tuesday, who sends me back to the eye doctor, which I couldn't see until Friday. The eye doctor sees "a bit of paleness" in my right eye, but says it's too late to treat.
I visit my neuro (and the people from my MS study) after that on Friday, who all agree that it's too late to treat (IV Steroids), but they would try anyways...since this is my vision after all. They tried to also get me in for an MRI on Friday, but it didn't work out and now I have to wait until Monday.
The doctors also couldn't get their act together to figure out how to give me IV steroids without hospitalizing me, so I guess if I wait until Monday it's REALLY REALLY going to be too late.
Here's where I go off the rails: So now I have to go about my life like nothing's wrong while I have diminished vision for probably the next 3-6 months??? (I have severe blind spots in my right eye that are big enough for me not to see traffic lights if my eyes are at the right angle)This just SUCKS!
I am extremely grateful because I'm not blind though...I am typing this afterall, it is just very exhausting to see. But people look at me and because I am very well dressed/put together and relatively fit that they think I'm being overly dramatic about my vision or making it up.
Even the doctors!
I am getting one of two reactions from them--Oh, it's not that bad! or Why did you wait so long??? GRRR
I am not only the financial provider for my family, but I am the one who has the health insurance. I am a CPA, so the ability to read words on a computer screen is 99% of my job. And I plan on keeping my job until they drag me away kicking and screaming from my laptop.
So what should I do? Should I insist on being treated, even if it does nothing? Should I just suck it up and try not to be bitter about it?
I also found something on Google about plasma replacement therapy for "extreme cases" of ON. I seriously doubt that anyone would think this is a serious case, but should I still ask about it? Has anyone had this done?
Any insight you all could give me is very appreciated.
First some background.
I am currently 43 years old. I was diagnosed with RRMS in October of 2012. My symptoms started exactly on January 3, 2012 when I woke up that morning and my left pinky and ring finger down to my elbow was numb.
It's been numb ever since.
I was officially diagnosed in October 2012 when my MRI showed new lesions (at this stage, I only had lesions on my c-spine).
Christmas week of that year, I got my first bout of optic neuritis in my left eye and I was hospitalized for three days with IV Steroids. The vision in my left eye never fully recuperated.
My disease has been pretty quiet since then. I have many day-to-day symptoms such as numbness in tingling in my legs when I walk long distances, but nothing too limiting.
In the meantime, my husband's health has been declining and he is only 47 now. He does not have MS, but was diagnosed with non-typical Trigeminal Neuralgia (TN) during the summer of 2015.
Getting him on the appropriate medication so he can live a "normal" life was a very long road because he was allergic to the main drug that they give for this condition.
Once we got his TN under control, he got an infection in his mouth (Ludwig's Angina!) that caused him to spend a week in intensive care and have emergency surgery. This past summer, he had to have his hip replaced, then surgical site got infected, so he was back in the hospital again.
On February 5th, he lost his job, but later that month he found a new job...HOWEVER, two weeks ago he gets a tiny cut on his knee and it gets infected with MRSA...so it's back in the hospital again for emergency surgery...and now he's home with a wound vac and a picc line...not able to work.
I also have two kids so I have been basically holding up my family by myself for years now.
During this time I am noticing a subtle uptick in my MS symptoms. One thing is that I notice I can no longer walk more than 5 minutes without my thighs going completely numb. In about July 2017, I also notice a decline in my vision of my left eye. I visited my opthamologist (who I had been a patient of since diagnosed with MS) and he didn't see any changes.
I had been taking Gilenya for many years but I stopped taking it about a year ago because I hated dealing with the specialty pharmacy. I ended up getting on a MS drug study in November, just for the free meds and the close monitoring.
So about three weeks ago, just after the time of my husband getting a new job, I realized that the vision in my right eye was diminished. I had just had a whole vision work-up (with a new eye glasses prescription) in December and I had my yearly visit with my Neuro in February and nothing was going on.
I should note though, when I got my MRI to be on the MS drug study (November 2017), I had two new lesions on my brain (which I never had any before) and one was active.
My vision had been getting worse and worse, but I had chalked it up to stress from my husband's issues and I just ignored it--I figured it couldn't be optic neuritis because I did not have any pain. On Easter Sunday, the flashes started, which motivated me to email my neurologist.
I get an appointment with the Neurologist on that Tuesday, who sends me back to the eye doctor, which I couldn't see until Friday. The eye doctor sees "a bit of paleness" in my right eye, but says it's too late to treat.
I visit my neuro (and the people from my MS study) after that on Friday, who all agree that it's too late to treat (IV Steroids), but they would try anyways...since this is my vision after all. They tried to also get me in for an MRI on Friday, but it didn't work out and now I have to wait until Monday.
The doctors also couldn't get their act together to figure out how to give me IV steroids without hospitalizing me, so I guess if I wait until Monday it's REALLY REALLY going to be too late.
Here's where I go off the rails: So now I have to go about my life like nothing's wrong while I have diminished vision for probably the next 3-6 months??? (I have severe blind spots in my right eye that are big enough for me not to see traffic lights if my eyes are at the right angle)This just SUCKS!
I am extremely grateful because I'm not blind though...I am typing this afterall, it is just very exhausting to see. But people look at me and because I am very well dressed/put together and relatively fit that they think I'm being overly dramatic about my vision or making it up.
Even the doctors!
I am getting one of two reactions from them--Oh, it's not that bad! or Why did you wait so long??? GRRR
I am not only the financial provider for my family, but I am the one who has the health insurance. I am a CPA, so the ability to read words on a computer screen is 99% of my job. And I plan on keeping my job until they drag me away kicking and screaming from my laptop.
So what should I do? Should I insist on being treated, even if it does nothing? Should I just suck it up and try not to be bitter about it?
I also found something on Google about plasma replacement therapy for "extreme cases" of ON. I seriously doubt that anyone would think this is a serious case, but should I still ask about it? Has anyone had this done?
Any insight you all could give me is very appreciated.
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