Family stresses me out and is now causing fights between my husband and me. My 22 yo son's car broke down on him at 4:00 Monday morning. At 2 pm he called me so my husband and I went and carried the car to my brother's house (because it was close and we were towing the car.) The car has been an issue between my parents and my hubby and I since the car was purchased. My parents bought the "hunk of junk" over our objections for my daughter 8 years ago. (She convinced her brother to swap cars with her.) We told them to wait and let us check with one of my husband's friends that owns a car lot but they had already bought it before we had a chance to do any checking. Since that time, that piece of cr*p has been broke down more than running.
We didn't say anything to my parents this time because Dad had just got out of surgery and I didn't want to upset them. Last night I learned how much my husband hates my family, my kids, and apparently me for all the stress he has had to put up with since he married me 10 years ago.
My husband drinks alot, but has always been very good to me- never putting me down, calling me names, or being physically, emotionally, or mentally abusive. He has always been very supportive of me. Last night he told me that he screwed up by marrying me and he wants me to leave. I am crushed. I asked him to let me have 2 weeks to get my stuff out of his house and back to my house. Right now, I am trying to get my animals moved while he is at work. He won't argue about who gets what and told me that I can use his truck and trailer to move my horses when I get ready. At times like this, I wish I had no relatives, no kids, no animals, nothing. I could just put my stuff in my car and disappear. If it was only that easy.
Sorry that I dumped on you but I thought you might understand that sometimes I have to put my feelings into words.
We didn't say anything to my parents this time because Dad had just got out of surgery and I didn't want to upset them. Last night I learned how much my husband hates my family, my kids, and apparently me for all the stress he has had to put up with since he married me 10 years ago.
My husband drinks alot, but has always been very good to me- never putting me down, calling me names, or being physically, emotionally, or mentally abusive. He has always been very supportive of me. Last night he told me that he screwed up by marrying me and he wants me to leave. I am crushed. I asked him to let me have 2 weeks to get my stuff out of his house and back to my house. Right now, I am trying to get my animals moved while he is at work. He won't argue about who gets what and told me that I can use his truck and trailer to move my horses when I get ready. At times like this, I wish I had no relatives, no kids, no animals, nothing. I could just put my stuff in my car and disappear. If it was only that easy.
Sorry that I dumped on you but I thought you might understand that sometimes I have to put my feelings into words.
sorry!!
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